Daddy hung up on me :(

[Daddysb1gbbygrl]

So, tomorrow I'm anout to go over seas for a week. I just got back from a trip on the otherside of the country today. All i wanted was to see my daddy. And I did, got an hour before he had to go to work. So now that he's home I asked if we could skype. I just wanted to see him before I left tomorrow morning. So we talk for 5 fudging minutes and he asked what I was doing. I said scrolling through a forum. He asked what it was about. So I told him it was a ddlg  forum. His exact words. "Great that doesn't make me paranoid at all. I'm going to bed good night" And he hung up before I could say anything. So now I'm sitting here crying because he is so mean some times. But most of the time he's sweet. I feel like i'm losing him.

[LilBean]

Try not to overthink it! Have you tried communicating with your daddy about his behavior?

[Guest PianoPlayer]

Is he very careful about who you hang out with and such? Being protective is one thing, and being controlling is another. Sounds like he jumped to a silly conclusion, or he has trust issues, but neither is your fault 

[Guest SUeB]

He's mean sometimes, he is jealous of you talking to people, and he isn't mature enough to end a conversation like an adult. Not feeling great about this dude i have to tell you! What are the good things about him?

[Guest lowkey little]

that's not ok, in any regard. ddlg is such an intimate dynamic, he should learn to communicate what he's feeling instead of responding like that

[meows kohai]

Uhhhhhhh insecure much? He sounds too immature to be a daddy. It's ddlg so you can talk to like minded people, not backpage.

[Guest Beardless Viking]

Sounds like he's really insecure. I've talked to people like that, and the best course of action is to talk to him about it and hope he grows up. If he doesn't, it's not a relationship worth persuing. You don't deserve to be treated that way.

Edited November 21, 2017 by Beardless Viking

[Guest infinitecases]

No person can be nice at all times but if you’re leaving soon and you don’t have much time to talk, that sounds a bit inconsiderate of him. Why is he saying it’ll make him paranoid? Have you tried asking him about it?

[Wolfycheeks]

Like people said, he's being paranoid. He's probably super jealous for some reason and thinks you're gonna walk off with some other daddy, maybe scared that you're going to meet someone else while you're away. It sucks but there's not much you can do about it besides reassure him. Why not show him your account if it makes him feel safer? Like 'I haven't posted anything weird, here's my account, you can see for yourself'? Idk if that would be weird, he'd probably start stalking you or seeing 'hints' in stuff you say. Actually never mind that idea. Paranoid and jealous people are a bit difficult. Keep reassuring him everything is okay, and if it doesn't work, it just won't.. nothing to be done about that, sadly. I'm sorry he left like that though. ;-; Have fun on your trip!

[princessfreckles]

First, I'm sorry that that happened to you. Second, communication is key to DDlg and it doesn't seem like he's a good communicator. I'd give him a chance to explain his behavior (maybe he was exhausted after a long day? I'm not sure), but when you do talk again let him know how much he hurt you with his jealous behavior. Especially when he didn't let you explain and didn't want to talk anymore knowing that you're going to be gone for a week and unable to speak as regularly. It's definitely not a good note to leave things before you leave.

 

Side note, have a safe and fun trip. 

[Cr33pyHollow]

been in similar situations with my Daddy. 

To be frank, he sounds insecure. Issues like this are almost always about insecurity. Do what you can to continue to show him you can be trusted, but don't let this ruin you, ok? At the end of the day, HE has to be the one to learn to the trust you, because this does sound like a trust issue. Talk to him, tell him about how he made you feel. Get a conversation going and work things out.