Are there any littles out there who don't have rules?

[LittleKitten13]

Sounds like a one true way speech to me. 

 

Listen, I'm assuming I couldn't just plop anyone who identified with your definition of "little girl" in your partners place, so it goes to show that categorizing only goes so far. Every dynamic is unique because the people involved are different.

 

Kink is all just whatever excites you, it's great that bdsm has some terminology and concepts. One of those definitions fits you, that's awesome. But we also have the rest of language to express our individual approach/ ideas/ concepts. Those reputable sources just trace back to a few people talking about this really fun thing they've been doing in bed or 24/7 or whatnot. 

 

I'm not really an age-player, I just generally get into little space. Sometimes (ha, almost always) I'm a demanding little. Sometimes my caregiver's way of giving care is service-oriented. Sometimes I've made Daddies "my bitch." And they are absolutely worthy of respect. 

Your little type sounds similar to what I've heard as called a "brat".  I'm not sure if I'm understanding correctly, but if I am, I think that's what I'd define you as.  That's still little, as far as I can tell.

[Guest KorgFoehammer]

I could cite at least 5 different flaws in your reasoning, but that is just bait on your game, as you are, a Brat. Concept wars, you say something is what you want it to be, in order to then, have your reason. Concept wars is what brats do best. And when you use "Bratspeak", I just leave you to your thoughts. as I would if my little were to do that. Fear not tho, because a lot of Doms like that, because they like to punish, or to submit, and do the same. It just hurts the community as a whole, making people think they can stereotype everything on that light.

Have a nice day.

 

Sounds like a one true way speech to me. 

 

Listen, I'm assuming I couldn't just plop anyone who identified with your definition of "little girl" in your partners place, so it goes to show that categorizing only goes so far. Every dynamic is unique because the people involved are different.

 

Kink is all just whatever excites you, it's great that bdsm has some terminology and concepts. One of those definitions fits you, that's awesome. But we also have the rest of language to express our individual approach/ ideas/ concepts. Those reputable sources just trace back to a few people talking about this really fun thing they've been doing in bed or 24/7 or whatnot. 

 

I'm not really an age-player, I just generally get into little space. Sometimes (ha, almost always) I'm a demanding little. Sometimes my caregiver's way of giving care is service-oriented. Sometimes I've made Daddies "my bitch." And they are absolutely worthy of respect. 

Edited November 25, 2017 by KorgFoehammer

[Guest CaptainAmerica97]

I don't have any rules but I haven't had a daddy yet to give me rules

[Wolfycheeks]

Are we talking about actual rules here or 'HEHE I';M A BRAT HEE HEE I'M GONNA BREAK ALL THESE 'RULES'' rules?

[Alice18]

I think my Daddy and I made up some rules long ago but they weren’t very realistic so more often than not, they’re broken (or easily forgiven lol). My Daddy does provide me guidance and advice on a regular basis so it’s not too bad. I’d like to think of it as a comfortable compromise that works for the both of us and our situation.

[daddy1992]

Hey, I can totally relate! My little and i are pretty much in the same boat. its hard to punish her when she lives a hour aways and we only get to see each other once a week/sometime more if lucky. As a daddy, i do struggles with this from time to time and have also keep give the same punishment at times that sometime i feel it isn't fair on my little part. At the end of the day there isn't much we can do to keep the rules until we both end up seeing each other a lot more or even when we move in together. The only Advice i can give is to stay strong and maybe think of different ways to punish and ect.. 

[Guest sunnybaby]

I don't have rules but daddy definitely has expectations of me. Like helping him cook, and taking a bath, etc. But if I don't do those things I don't get punished, just a look. (I never let it get past the look though so if he gives me the look I do it) 

 

And if I'm ever being crazy or something he does his daddy voice and I usually behave so yeah.

[EriSol211]

I dont really have any solid rules. The only thing I can kinda consider a rule is that I cant smack daddys butt, and if I do I get spankings. I sort of want rules though but at the same time I dont because I really like to break rules. Im sure eventually daddy will make some more rules but for right now i dont have any, but daddys rules are a whole other story.

[Snuggleupagis]

My daddy and I have more rules on what to avoid as triggers to my PTSD than for me being a good girl. I would LIKE more rules about how to be a good girl, but he's so scared to hurt me that he spoils me and let's me get away with almost everything. We just started making "daddy rules" and are new to this. Anyone with suggestions, I'm open to hearing them.

I'm not scared of my daddy, I trust my daddy and love him. But he's scared of hurting me.

[prince eefy]

i dun have any rules, at leas not major ones. we have some minor ones, like making sure i eat daily and keep myself hydrated and making sure i take care of myself. and that i listen to daddy. but other than that, no major rules.