Umm what happend/what do I do?

[BunnyBear]

So, I was talking to a potential Daddy. And we seemed to click in most ways. I was really excited. I was saying I was getting sleepy and explained I don't have a kik.

 

Then I suddenly couldn't message him anymore. I figured it was some mistake on my end bc I'm on mobile, maybe I pressed something on Accident?

 

But when I tried to remedy it and readd him, I think I got rejected? I didn't see this coming at all and I don't understand. Like he literally just asked for a way to better communicate, I'm so confused. Is this normal?

[Guest Beardless Viking]

Could be he deleted the conversation and deleted you? Stuff like this happens all the time here from my experience. Some people would rather just ghost someone than explain that they don't feel a connection or don't want to persue a potential friendship/relationship further.

[Puppy]

Chances are he wasn't serious about looking for a little, to begin with. He probably deleted you, you didn't accidentally press anything dear. He deleted you over something as small as not having a kik, which is a huge red flag in his personality and what his true intentions probably were. I would not stress it or feel bad! You did nothing wrong and will find somebody wonderful eventually. Best of luck to you. <3 

[BunnyBear]

Thank you both. Yea, I guess that's true. Still some courtesy would be nice. Oh well.

[Puppy]

I agree! True, respectful, and kind individuals will always communicate with you. Yes, it may be hurtful or disappointing to be told you are no longer interested, or do not feel a connection, or have differing wants/needs, but at least the other person will always know why the other is no longer interested!

[daddyandy]

I have ran into that numerous times, talk to a little then poof shes gone. Idk why but yes some courtesy would be nice

[Guest SUeB]

It's completely normal. Sadly the online thing is a disposable bit of fun for a lot of people. He wasn't looking for anything serious, and you are no doubt one in a long line. Sorry, it sucks, but it's just part of the journey.

[BiBiLittle]

Oh honey. He did you a favor. Only cowards will ghost you. Having a coward for a daddy is not cool. Look in the mirror, smile and say next!

[Spitfire]

Oh honey. He did you a favor. Only cowards will ghost you. Having a coward for a daddy is not cool. Look in the mirror, smile and say next!

You realize it’s been a year and change since this thread was last posted in, right? I doubt the minute amount they talked could’ve given the OP a shell shock from ghosting...