Guide for a new daddy

[Daddysb1gbbygrl]

Hi. So I'm new to this forum but I've been a little for a super long time. And I just got with my current boyfriend. He doesn't really know about DDLG so I'm writing up a cute little book thing to give him information. He had a daddy kink but I don't think he's a daddy Dom. Which I'm ok with. But this guide is meant for reference for him. Not to change his likes. But after part two "daddy Dom vs. daddy kink" I don't know what else to put... Help pweez!!!!!!! >:3

[Cr33pyHollow]

Well, being a DD means different things to different things to different people. Maybe put what you would want from a DD? 

[Guest JayRingo77]

As a new Daddy and doing a lot of research here are some of the topics I came across and wish had been available:

 

Vocabulary: Little, Middle, paci - think of all the terms and things specific to the lifestyle and define them

 

Ideal Schedule: Do you want a lot of structure?  If so what's a good bed time.  What activities do you want in your day? (Stories, Tucked in, etc)

 

Favorites as a Little: What crafts do you enjoy?  Who is your favorite stuffie?  Think of it like a short bio of 'Little' you.

 

Daddy Don'ts: There's being a Dom/Master and there's being a Daddy.  They are so incredibly different but to the lay person there might be misunderstandings.  Make clear distinctions between the two.

 

Daddy in Public:  This is one I've found a lot of help with here in the forum - what's acceptable, comfortable when it comes to being out and about in Little space?  This varies and is very personal but it's an aspect I hadn't considered and was happy to discover before adopting my first ward.

 

Hope this helps.  Other things that might be fun are his wardrobe (do you like a clean cut Daddy or a Comfy Daddy).  Basically the more you lay out your expectations and communicate the better off you, and frankly any relationship, will be.