How do I know this lifestyle is for me and what is the first step?

[Guest CuddlyPenguin]

[A Cuddly Dom]

It sounds to me like you're already on the right track. No one else can decide for you if you're a little or not. But, it seems that you demonstrate a lot of the common characteristics. Keep researching the various kinds of dynamics out there and see which one suits your personality and needs best.

 

In time, you'll become more comfortable with your submissive nature and will be ready to recieve a partner to explore things with. Give it time, go slow, and remember to place your own needs first.

 

As always, if you want more information, check out dominantlife on tumblr and read his Library for Kinksters. There are enough excellent articles there to keep you reading for a few evenings. Best wishes.

[Guest JayRingo77]

Cuddly certainly has the sage advice.  Go slow.  Read a lot.  Chat in the community and ask a lot of questions.  Post threads like this and weigh the replies against what you want/expect/desire in a relationship regardless of the context or power dynamic.

 

I'm new to the DD/lg context of D/s but I've been a Dom and Master for going on seventeen years.  They parallel in a lot of ways and also diverge in places.  So it's a unique lifestyle I'm exploring because I'm finding myself craving more of a nurturing approach and have some Little hobbies and occupations that I genuinely enjoy and seek as a stress relief (Shrinky Dinks...they're addictive).

 

So far I've had a very positive experience with this community.  The Littles are a fabulous and supportive community and I highly recommend getting to know them through their posts and in the chat.  Have fun exploring!