Fluffy*Pillow Posted November 10, 2017 Report Posted November 10, 2017 I just met my daddy 3 days ago and we barely talk because he's busy. I'm being clingy, and already in love. Does that make me weird?
CymoP Posted November 10, 2017 Report Posted November 10, 2017 I wouldn't say weird exactly but at risk of being disappointed alot and probably quite hurt... 2
Guest Beardless Viking Posted November 10, 2017 Report Posted November 10, 2017 This is something I see happening a lot. You're clearly quite desperate for love and attention, and what little he's given you has already been enough for you to fall in love and get attached. This could lead to a lot of heartache, and your affection could potentially be used against you. I think you should tread very carefully. 2
Guest SUeB Posted November 10, 2017 Report Posted November 10, 2017 You absolutely are not in love. It's called frenzy. Be careful, you're going to end up in a bit of a mess if you don't try be more realistic and careful. 2
DreamingDesire Posted November 10, 2017 Report Posted November 10, 2017 I don't doubt you feel the intensity of love, but what's more important is that these feelings you have for your caretaker are not based on how you imagine him to be, but rather on his actual actions. If it's only been a few days with not much talking, you didn't have the chance to spend much time together, so the feelings you're feeling are purely based on potential rather than actual events or things that make him special. That is why this is such a volatile situation that could easily lead to heartbreak like the people above are pointing out, once you spend more time with him and you find it's not all you desired. It may work out, and I wish both of you the best of luck, but just be aware of how much you actually know about the relationship and him so far! 3
meows kohai Posted November 11, 2017 Report Posted November 11, 2017 Keep in mind that there's a difference between love and infatuation.
Fluffy*Pillow Posted November 11, 2017 Author Report Posted November 11, 2017 Okies... I feel like a bad little now...
✿Space☆Captainʕᵔᴥᵔʔ Lala ✿ Posted November 11, 2017 Report Posted November 11, 2017 You are not a bad little, this happens to a lot of littles. Do not put yourself down.
Guest SUeB Posted November 11, 2017 Report Posted November 11, 2017 (edited) We aren't trying to make you feel bad, we are just asking you to try chill out a bit. Most of us have been there, and we have unfortunately learned the hard way. Its very easy to get all up in the air, swirling rainbows in our heads, getting all giddy about someone we actually know literally nothing about. Especially within this dynamic. You've been talking three days. Three.....days. And by the sounds of it, he's barely given you much interaction. Just try put your big girl head on, and come back down to earth. This is not judgement or insults. It's a warning to slow down. Edited November 11, 2017 by SUeB
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