My Daddy has left me

[Pretty in pink]

My Daddy and I have separate relationships outside of what we have. He messaged me today to say that his partner had found out and he couldn't do it anymore but to call him if I wanted to talk about it. I have tried to call him, FaceTime, message and email but o cannot reach him. I'm really struggling to deal with it without speaking to him properly but I don't know how to get through to him.

 

Is this something I can always expect? To just be dropped as if I meant nothing? That certainly wasn't why I persued this avenue. I was new to this before him, I have nothing to judge it against, no experience at all.

 

Can anyone provide any advice?

[Cr33pyHollow]

You got into a relationship with someone who was already in on. It sounds like his relationship was not open. Hopefully, your partner does know about you dating other people and is okay with that, at least on some level. 

these things happen, and yes its hard, and it hurts, and it will feel like you're never gonna find the right person. But you have to keep your head up, and not allow yourself to get stuck in a loop of unhappiness. 

best of luck~

[Guest DaddyCares1]

Relationships within dd/lg are just like any other. Some people treat you well, others won't. Don't always expect it, but know the possibility is always present. 

I'm not sure if you knew he was hiding this from his partner, but it is best for all parties to be open with another. Otherwise a mess like this becomes rather probable. 

[Untwisted]

To be blunt, being secretly in a relationship with someone else is cheating, being unfaithful.  It's more likely to end abruptly when the truth gets out.  It's not about monogamy, it's about honesty.  He may have had every intention to let you down gently and help you through it, maybe he was just telling you what you wanted to hear, either way, if he wants to save his other relationship, he needs to cut all ties and move on.

I'll assume you can't talk about it with your partner, so that makes things worse, having to hide how you're feeling.

I'm not judging you for getting into that situation.  Things happen, but you learn from them.  Should you always expect it?  I don't know, but if you get involved with someone as something like an affair rather than an open relationship, it's more likely to be messy when it inevitably ends.

I see you just posted a personal ad as well.  My advice would be don't go rushing headlong into the next bad situation, take some time to think about what next.