Tall Little

[Guest AlternativePrincess]

Hello everyone!

 

I am fairly new to ddlg myself. I have been a submissive for several years, but in D/s or M/s relationships. I knew about ddlg but I don't think I was comfortable enough to actually admit that I liked it and participate. Now I have a Daddy and I love him and we have a lot of fun together!

 

But the reason I started this topic is because I have a bit of a problem. I'm a pretty tall girl (1.79m/5ft10) and my Daddy is smaller than me (165m/5ft5). I found this a little awkward at first, but I have gotten used to it. The only thing is that sometimes it still makes me a little uncomfortable, especially since he likes me wearing heels etc but that makes me feel like I am huge. Also I have a bit of trouble getting into little space, partly because I have had a life in which I had to be an adult early on and had to take care of myself a lot, and I think that because of that I always feel a little self conscious and stupid for wanting to be little. The other part is that I feel like I can't be little because I'm tall (and taller than Daddy).

 

Many people have said that I couldn't possibly be his little because of the hight difference. My Daddy doesn't mind at all, he treats me like his princess and he tries to get me there and help me get comfortable enough.. I'm just a bit insecure and I was hoping you might have any tips or similar situations?

 

Thank you!

 

Huggs xx

 

[Guest Sirchristo1]

We are similar in that my Princess and I are the same height but when she wears heels (which she looks great in) she becomes taller than me. I love it and have no problem with that whatsoever! Enjoy the differences that make you unique!

[Guest AlternativePrincess]

Thank you so much for your comment! It makes me feel good to know that I am not the only one with this kind of situation. And you're right, I should enjoy what makes me unique, it's just that I'm a little insecure about it.

[Guest Sirchristo1]

Thank you so much for your comment! It makes me feel good to know that I am not the only one with this kind of situation. And you're right, I should enjoy what makes me unique, it's just that I'm a little insecure about it.

She can correct this if I’m mistaken, but when we first met it bothered her to wear heels around me because she felt uncomfortable being taller than Daddy but she soon found out that it didn’t bother me at all. I reassured her of that and if how great she looks in heels. You’ll get there and it will become comfortable for you! It sounds like you are already headed in that direction!!

[Guest AlternativePrincess]

Thank you, this makes me feel so much better! 

Edited November 8, 2017 by xBrattyPrincess

[meows kohai]

I'm not quite as tall, 5'8, but I feel ya. My Daddy's like barely 5'10 and it makes me feel weird hahaaaa but it's really not a big deal. He can still pick me up and throw me over his shoulder like I'm nothing sooo 

[Guest AlternativePrincess]

Haha my Daddy can also lift me up and carry me around so I think I'm just overreacting a bit *blush*

[KumihoDoll]

Personally I like to tease my mister about this. I'll get on my tip toes and state that I'm taller than him. I'm about an inch shorter, but with heels I'm definitely taller. The teasing and being on my tip toes turn it into a game because he'll get on his tip toes, or tickle me to crouch down. It's fun, and something playful like that might help make it more comfortable for you. Don't worry about appearances; you have a Daddy that loves you! Insecurities are hard to get over, but with the support you'll feel better about it. c:

[Guest AlternativePrincess]

That's such a good idea! Making it into a game will absolutely make it way more fun! Thank you for that great advice! 

[Guest Arc]

I'm the same height as you, and my Daddy is a little bit shorter than me as well. It's never been a problem to us, and when we met I was actually wearing 6" heels and was significantly taller than him. My height was never a problem to him. I felt a little awkward at first but I got over it pretty quick because I realised my problem was I was worried that he'd be uncomfortable, but when I realised he was comfortable I stopped caring.

 

He loves heels so it isn't a problem to him when I wear them. He doesn't even seem to mind whenever I wear my favourite 8" heels. ^.^

[cams]

I identify so much with you! We're the same height, and even in vanilla relationships I always looked for people taller than me, because I feel uncomfortable being big. But at the end how people look doesn't matter, just their personality and how you feel about them!

[Guest AlternativePrincess]

All your replies really make me feel better! Its nice to know that I'm not the only one! Thank you for all the lovely comments and advice! *hugs*