I’m not sure am I little one, help me please

[Nmp]

Hi,

 

I used to call my ex daddy and he clearly was the dominant and acted like daddy. He also called me his little one but we never decided that okay now we are this kind of relationship, they were just nicknames.

But I always wished more from him. Him being even more dominant and daddy, being more strict with me.

But I don’t enjoy coloring or being child like. Yeah I have times when I’m childish but I don’t fully get into the child mode.

But I still don’t enjoy the bdsm dominant/submissive relationship. Like I need someone who takes care of me but I’m still not that little little one

[Guest SUeB]

There's a big difference between being childISH and childLIKE

But you are who you are, don't put so much thought into what you need to call yourself. Will a specific title make you feel any differently?

i have no idea if you are a little or not. You don't need to like colouring or wearing pigtails to be a little. Neither do you need to call someone daddy to be one.

[PrettyLittleGirlyGirl]

You dont need labels but maybe you would like to head more towards this style. Maybe your childlike side will open up as time goes on. What did you like doing as a child?

 

I recently read a book that talked about how our views of what is childlike is wrong and mostly is our inner selves. Theres relationship advice so similar to this but not ddlg/kink iykwim, just a very similar dynamic. We all want to be loved and have fun and have our craziest desires met

Edited November 4, 2017 by PrettyLittleGirlyGirl