My Daddy Doesn't Love Me

[PrincessBelle]

So this is going to seem really strange but I'm a little and I have a Daddy who is not my boyfriend and doesn't love me. He says we're friends with benifits and I agree with it because im hopelessly in love with him and can't stand nnot being with him. But it has made my depression worse and I'm unable to go into liittle space. All I want is for my Daddy to love me and not tell me that I'm annoyinng and text him too much. I don't want him sleeping with other girls or asking to have three-ways with my friends. I'm his so why can't he be mine?

[Guest Sae]

The both of you made a choice.

 

And maybe you need to be the one that cuts ties off from him. Its not good its making you depressed, and it sounds really hard or unthinkable right now. But for your own mental health and sake its better for you. Go find a daddy thats wants you to be his, and wants to be in a relationship with you. Not someone who just wants to sleep with you. Thats not a Daddy, and if you are looking for the nurturing side of a Daddy you're not going to find it that way.  

 

 I don't really give advice on how to make someone 'like you' because he should like you for you.  All I can suggest it cut off ties and go find a real Daddy. Find one that loves you for you, wants to talk to you, wants to spend time with you, and wants to be with you. Not someone who only wants you for a fuck when he is in the mood. 

[GentleDaddyDom]

I know what it's like to be in a situation where things are entirely one sided, emotionally. I know it's great to have them around, even if it's not that way. You want them so much, that you couldn't imagine them not being there... But it tears you apart not having them all that way, right?

 

As much as I hate having to tell people this... It's something you have to let go of. Trying to hang onto something you can't have is going to hurt you a whole lot more in the long run, than letting go now will ever hurt.

 

Somewhere out there, is the Daddy of your dreams. Someone who will love you for you, and someone that won't have you in a one sided relationship. You deserve that, not this. For your own good, I think you should step back, and take care of yourself.

 

Sometimes, it's okay to be selfish. You are living your life, after all. Not someone else's.

[Guest Rainbow]

You need to walk away. The Daddy that will love you and spend all his waking seconds thinking of you and wanting to do for you and care for you, all of that before even considering being physical with you, is out there. This guy is not it. If he is capable of treating you this way, he is NOT capable of being your daddy. Take care of yourself.

[Cherry41]

I don't think you necessarily have to cut all ties with him. It doesn't sound like he's a bad person....though a bit snippy at times. It sounds to me like you guys are  non exclusive fwb/DDlg....and he likes it that way...but you want exclusive bf/gf. That has to be rough. I would try doing a lot of networking in the community; find a group (online or off) of other lgs, Daddies, etc...so you have that sense of constant love and support in your life.