Boyfriend, Not Daddy

[Guest NyxCa]

I have a situation in my relationship: I have a boyfriend, not a Daddy.

 

We have a couple of years together and from the beginning it was always good but recently I discovered that I am a Little and my boyfriend meets some of the qualities of a Daddy but I talked to him about it and he said "I'm not comfortable with that"

 

The truth: I love him and he is always filling me with gifts but my interest is in the affective.

[Rebel]

There are a few things. But the biggest thing that most people will say is do not pressure someone into doing something they don't wanna do. You can simply ask if its alright to act little around him, and he doesn't have to be a daddy.

 

The problem in a situation like this is it could turn into a "one in the hand, two in the bush" sorta scenario. You could (I am not saying do this, its just a hypothetical) leave him and maybe find that one person that is everything he is and a daddy as well. While that is possible, it is really.. "unlikely" to say the least. 

 

I suppose again, just ask if you can be little around him. It might show him that it isn't what he thinks it is, or might start trying things out for you. 

 

Best of luck and I hope I helped some. 

[Guest Proloke]

It might be the way you presented it also. Remember there is no true way to be a daddy ect. But ya if hes really not comftable with the lifestyle it shouldn't be forced.

[Guest DaddyCares1]

This is very simple. He's not interested so you have to respect that. Now you have to decide between one of the following. 

- ignoring the fact you're a little if he's not tolerant of it
- being little independently and staying in your relationship
- ending the relationship and finding a daddy

[Tinka]

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Edited May 13, 2018 by Tiny_Tina