Bad Experience

[Guest SugarNSpiceSam]

In the past I had a bad experience with a 2 Daddy Dom's. Thankfully I got over everything, but I still sometimes hold back a little bit anytime I'm getting to know a new Dom because I want to be a little catious. The other two basically didn't care for my well being and I was left frustrated. Think it was a good decision on my part to take a break from it for awhile and focus on my life. There's always hope for the future.

 

Has anyone else had bad experiences? Just curious.

[Guest SUeB]

Pretty sure most people have had bad experiences in the past. Some worse than others. i have several such stories, but not to post here right now cos it's my bedtime, lol. It's just part of almost everyone's journey.

[Guest jimmy3737]

Even daddies can have bad experiences.  I know I have.  I am always very cautious as well.  It takes a great deal of time and patience to find the right person.  There is nothing wrong with being cautious and looking out for yourself, even though you may really want to have someone to depend on.  Take all the time you need.  The person who is the right one will be willing to wait. 

[DreamingDesire]

DDLG attracts a lot of uncaring people. DD's can be entirely about control without the care, where they require littles to obey without considering their feelings and wishes. LG's can, for example, be entirely about demanding someone taking the time and energy to help them set up their life without giving anything in return. It's important to give it some time to blossom to see if you truly care for each other, and only then commit to the DD/LG relationship. The foundation needs to be right most importantly. Consider the DD/LG aspect the special sauce to take it to the next level

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Being cautious isn't a bad thing, it's smart. Look at all the new littles that jump into the personals, ask for a daddy, get a daddy and are sooo in love, and the next status update is "omg daddy is mean", then 1 week later the famous topic thread, "daddy doesnt careeeeee" And rinse and repeat. 

 

It's better to be a single little than go through that on a monthly basis. So I think you're smart to actually listen to your past experiences and take that into consideration when talking to new doms.

 

Plus, it is the internet after all. 

[Guest Shalott]

. Edited December 20, 2017 by Shalott

[Guest DiaperedBabyR]

Yup, same has happened to me as well, except with Mommies. 3 bad ones so far. One started asking for money, another ghosted, and the other I found posted an ad on Reddit saying she was a little looking for a Daddy and when I asked about it ghosted me. So yeah, caution is a good thing. We need to take our time and really get to know the other person before jumping into a relationship.