BadAssGirlie Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 I am 5'6 ( shortish) and i am chubby. I have spoken to guys on here and most of them seem to like the stick girls ( no offense to skinny girls, because we all are beautiful!), luckily i found a daddy that likes curves. So i was just wondering if any other littles or Mommy's struggled with self insecurities about their weight?
Guest Thelittlebear Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 Omg yes ! I use to be really insecure about my weight and looks. Im not fat but i have some extra meat on my bones. It took me a long time to be confident with myself. And im still slightly insecure with my body But, I learned that if I dont like the way I look , I need to change myself and my way of life. I have been working out and eating healthy
Guest Prat Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 I can't say I like skinny girls more than curvy...depends on the person. Some wear it well and some don't.
Guest TotalitarianPrincess Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 I'm a plus size little and I definitely struggle with self image issues. I think we all do at one point or another. I definitely used to have worse self image issues than I do now. But I try to find the beauty in myself. It can definitely get hard, but at the end of the day, this is my body, the only one I will ever have. So I have to take care of it and cherish it.
DollDirector Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 Having insecurities with yourself is one subject , and preferences daddies would have is another. Is there proof of this ? Don't let yourself be influenced by pictures people post on youtube or elsewhere. If you look at vanilla +sized females,you'll find they have partners just like other females. There is no real reason it would be different in this community.
Guest pacibrat Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 Chubby lil girl here and I don't care what anyone prefers or thinks. I am who I am and I own it. If someone isn't interested because of it, I don't care. Next!!!!! I will NEVER be super thin. We all have preferences and that's okay. I'm bisexual and I'm more attracted to chubby girls. That isn't right or wrong, just personal preference.
Guest Proloke Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 I dated all sizes and tend to lean more towards the chubby girls but honestly what it comes down to is personality
Guest Ignea Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 I agree with Proloke here .. what it comes down to is personality Judging books on covers never gets you the full story, no matter the prettyness of the pictures on it
Wolfycheeks Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 Well, in my opinion round girls (chubby girls) can be ok, but depends, some are unhealthy-fat and say they're chubby but some really skinny girls I know always say they're chubby!! It's indeed preference! I like petite small girls myself, wouldn't easily date a chubby girl, for one exception haha. (a qt youtuber)
DreamingDesire Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 You're right that everyone is beautiful in their own way. However, that doesn't mean we're beautiful to everyone no matter how we look. Don't let insecurities pop up just because someone prefers a different body type. And if it's something that bothers you, we can do a lot to control that too Also I want to add that I can imagine Daddy's having an issue with their bodies too. Sixpacks are often preferred over chubby men. Seems a little weird to specifically look for Littles/Mommy's to share their experience.
Guest Georgia-Daddy2 Posted November 1, 2017 Report Posted November 1, 2017 I don't like super skinny girls because I'm afraid I will break them. I like a little chub. Also someone said "some girls wear it better" and this is very true.
Guest SUeB Posted November 2, 2017 Report Posted November 2, 2017 Some dudes like chubby girls, some dudes like skinny girls, some dudes like athletic girls, some dudes like muscular girls, and a lot of dudes couldn't care less and like everything and anything. Same goes for what girls like.
Guest pacibrat Posted November 2, 2017 Report Posted November 2, 2017 Well, in my opinion round girls (chubby girls) can be ok, but depends, some are unhealthy-fat and say they're chubby but some really skinny girls I know always say they're chubby!! It's indeed preference! I like petite small girls myself, wouldn't easily date a chubby girl, for one exception haha. (a qt youtuber) Your "unhealthy fat" is another person's sexy as hell. There are also many thin people who are unhealthy because they are underweight (achieved by not eating aka starvation to attain a cultural ideal). There are also people who are referred to as "fat skinny" (meaning that they appear thin, but they don't exercise or eat right so their internal body composition is fat and they aren't healthy). And yes, overweight people can also be unhealthy, but fat doesn't always equal unhealthy either. Just keep an open mind about bodies in general. Live and let live.
BadAssGirlie Posted November 2, 2017 Author Report Posted November 2, 2017 Thank y'all so much! It has boosted my confidence and given me new views on everything now. So again i thank you all!
BetweenKandM Posted November 2, 2017 Report Posted November 2, 2017 My bug and I both have body issues, but she gets it especially hard I feel like. She’s tall and not very petite and she feels down about herself when she reads stories and whatnot about tiny Little’s. Were working together help improve how we feel about ourselves though. So you’re definitely not alone! But we are all beautiful !
Princesscuppiecake Posted November 17, 2017 Report Posted November 17, 2017 I would classify my Daddy as a “chubby chaser”. Lol. Although the only chubby he’s chasing these days is ME! Haha. You like what you like. He likes me thick and chubby. Some days I feel good (not so chubby) and there are days I feel like a whale but Daddy doesn’t like me talking bad about myself and always tells me how beautiful I am. He’s told me enough now I don’t ever doubt it.
PrinceVespertin777 Posted December 19, 2017 Report Posted December 19, 2017 There's also the issue of people saying "let people be attracted to what they're attracted to"... Except they exclude all fat people from being able to do that as well lol. I'm chubby. I hate it, but it's medical and won't change without abdominoplasty. I'm attracted to average, thin and muscular men. Not other heavy boys. But I've actually been insulted and told I have no right to be 'so picky' (my SUUUUUPER narrow criteria of anything but really big xD). EVEN BY BIG GUYS!!! *_____* I do feel like I'll never find a Daddy, as a chub. I mean, unless I give up basically my only two limits, size and advanced age???? People talk about not wanting to date chasers cause it's dehumanizing.... But like....I just wanna be wanted by someone I want back. If that means I gotta date an intersex chaser or chubby chaser, maybe I don't mind?
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