Little/ Little Relationships

[Baby_Kota]

Have you ever heard of two littles who are romantically involved with each other?Can two littles be in a relationship? If so do you think it could be successful? 

 

I am aware that someone has to be slightly dominant or a switch, I've just never come across two littles who were in a relationship together. It's a very rare dynamic

 

-Baby_Kota

[cuppycakes]

I've heard of it before, and I think as long as one doesn't feel like they NEED the other to enforce rules or punishments, it could work swell. For example, I do not feel as though I NEED rules or punishments. I think it's nice to have some, but I could live without. I could easily have a relationship with someone who wasn't part of the dynamic (though I would still expect them to respect MY liking ddlg), or someone who was also a little (um hello? playdates all the time? yes please). However, if my partner needed me to enforce anything with them, I couldn't do it. I do not have the dominant mindset.

 

I don't think that one needs to be more dominant than the other, I just don't know if one could be more submissive than the other. Does that make sense? There's a multitude of different ways in which it could work out, though most littles feel as though they need a CG.

 

I'm not going to tell anyone how to live their life, yaknow? You do you.

[TinyTwaddle]

hihi, I can tell you from personal experience that it's a lot of work. It depends on the type of personality that each person has and whether or not both of you feel comfortable being in little space together. It's like a great best friend that you can do everything with, but for me it felt like something was missing. It wasn't about rules or punishments, but rather the idea of having someone to make all the fears and doubt go away. Part of being little, for some people, is that there is someone to tell you that you are too little to do something not as a rule but just to keep you in little space. 

 

I wasn't strong enough in my littleness to have a little relationship, but some people are. It's what you want out of the dynamic and what makes you happy.