How do I talk to my Daddy?

[Sigyn003]

I recently met a Daddy a week ago. We live in the same state and we've discussed things up to and including our preferences and sex. I'm really awkward talking to people especially online and we're supposed to be meeting in a couple weeks to see if we connect in person (he already explained in his profile that he wanted an online relationship that eventually became a real life one). How do I keep the conversation from getting stale? He's a lot older so maybe that's why? We both have kind of relaxed personalities from what I can tell. I'm 18 and in college and he's turning 40 and a graduate.

[Taken101]

Okay the age gap right off the bat is going to present a challenge. Not for any bad reasons but because his life experiences will be more extensive than yours are. I'd say that to find a mutual talking point. Places you might both have visited abroad similar to shows etc. You're getting to know him so ask questions, give full answers.

 

Talk to him like he's your best friend. Build trust. Show you're interested in him, ask how his day was, build up a rapport and some trust. Show him what you have to offer as a person and as a little. See how both your little and big sides respond to him. Flow with conversation and just keep the topic going.

 

Good luck, I hope it all works out well and if you need more help or anything feel free to message me.

 

P.S I'm a hypocrite I have anxiety and can never do that when I meet anyone new at all in lifestyle or out.

[Guest pacibrat]

First, you barely know each other.  It's only been a week.  Second, he's 40!!  HE should keep the conversation going.  He has a lot more life experience than you do.  If he can't keep the conversation flowing, etc., I'd run.  Also, you're only 18.  Please, please, please BE CAREFUL.  Make sure someone knows exactly where you're going, how long you'll be there and his real name and address.  Make him prove it by showing you his license with the number covered (that way you don't get his information).  Treat this like any other real life date and put YOUR safety first.

[Barbiedolly]

honestly, you need to wait a bit longer.

[Guest DaddyCares1]

If you can't have great conversations, you won't have a great relationship. That is for sure. 

You could always ask him about his interests, work, what TV shows/movies he's into just as a few examples. That doesn't guarantee the conversation won't run stale though. Both individuals need to have a genuine interest in one another as people, not just the daddy/little side

[AsleepAndDreaming]

So the age gap between you and your potential Daddy is about the same as between me and my little, but to only be talking a week before getting ready to meet does seem quite quick, especially if you're worried about things not being natural between you. Have you thought about speaking on the phone or going on Skype first? The first conversation I had with my little lasted over an hour because we were just chatting away about random stuff - past relationships, her cats, what we both wanted from this relationship, exactly what she does at college, our friends etc etc. The important thing here was that it flowed naturally, that there weren't any uncomfortable silences.

 

You can tell fairly quickly from a phone call or a Skype session whether or not you click. The most important thing is whether you feel comfortable and safe with him, and whether he's likely to look after you, which is presumably what you're looking for, and you should only meet when you are happy to, and only you will know when that time is right. In short, don't get pressured into doing something you are not completely ready for. 

[LittleGirlEmilia]

I can't tell you how fed up I am. Don't call a stranger your daddy. You've only known him a week.

Common sense please!