Embarassed to express my 'little' side.

[Wolfycheeks]

Hi everyone! ✧･ﾟ:

 

I was wondering how you littles here acted in a DDLG dynamic? Was it very easy for you to get in 'littlespace' or did you need to get really comfortable first? or did it just happen? Also, did/do you feel embarassed talking in detail about what you like/don't like when feeling little? I'm scared to ask for specific things in a relationship because I'm just embarassed I guess. I don't want people to be weirded out. I know they say they're daddies but I've met many 'fake' daddies who just like the DDLG for the sexual stuff. So I was wondering how you all felt about opening up or being honest about your wishes in a relationship, being a little, etc. Thank you for reading!

 

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Edited October 29, 2017 by Wolfycheeks

[Guest Thelittlebear]

For me it takes while until i go imto littlespace with them

I have ti be very comfortable with them

 

Dont let any one tell you that youre not real little because you dont go into the head space

It's a gift and not every person is meant to get that from you , unless you want to

 

Dont feel rushed or prsssueed to go into little space by anyone its up to you when you wamt to show them that side of you

[Guest Dulci]

I've not gone into little space with anyone else yet, because simply, I know I'm not ready. When I find the right person I will! Never feel scared to say what you like and don't like; if it's the right person, they'll appreciate your honesty! 

So, as said in the comment before, please don't feel forced or anything. It's you're most vulnerable state I find, and you don't want to be taken advantage of. 

[Guest infinitecases]

I'm naturally quite childish in spirit, so it didn't take much to be like that with my Daddy. Around other people though, I think I'm still the same albeit toned down a lot and they never seem to hear it anyway because my voice gets drowned out by something else  

[meows kohai]

I'm the same type of way. I usually wait to participate until I'm a few drinks in haha

[AngelLex]

I'm really new, and have never actually been in a relationship that involves this part of me. I can not go into little space around people, or so far at least. the only way I can is if I'm alone, like in my room or in a fort. I personally can kind of go in and out fairly easily, which I am extremely thankful for, so if someone does interrupt me, I'm fine. I've never told anyone really, about this part of me, and its all really new. that's why I came on here, to have a place to talk about it.

idk, yeah.

[eilonwy]

I'm reaaallly shy around my boyfriend to go into littlespace even though he supports it and likes it. I'm the same way, I'm bad at telling him what I do/don't like/want when in littlespace (or out of little space talking about my little side). Personally, for me, I feel like it's the stigma against ddlg that gets to me. I'm kink shaming myself, and even though he supports it, I still get embarrassed. If you find any solutions let me know!! Lol. I hope you can find an actual daddy soon