Daddy wants me to send " Big Boy" pics.

[Guest PastelBabyBoy]

Heyo it is me Xavier. I have this issue in my head that i want advice on please.

  Daddy and i have been together not even a week yet , and he wants me to send some naughty photos. And i don't know about it, i am a very insecure little boy. One being trans and the other just akwardness. I mean i really don't want my daddy to be mad or dissapointed in me. But i also don't want to show him that yet. I am torn inbetween two things and it is stressing me slightly. 

     Sincerely Concerned Xavier,

[Guest Dulci]

Being together not even a week is a bit of a warning sign. Never do anything that makes you uncomfortable. That's the bottom line.

 

What do you owe this person after a week? If he's pressuring you/forcing you, he's not the right person.

 

Explain to your "daddy" that you don't feel comfortable and want to take the chance to get to know him first. IF he does not like that response, then, you know where you stand and you can find yourself a better daddy. 

[Guest ~ Ducky ~]

That is a big red flag and it sounds like he's just using you for his own sick gain. My advice is to leave him, you don't know him that well and he's already asking for naughty pics. That isn't right.

[RobbieBobbie]

If he is serious and really likes you I think he will be ok to wait

[Guest littlelisafrank]

If you're not comfortable with doing that, right now, then you need to tell your Daddy. If he deserves you, then he'll understand. Never do something you're not ready to do just to please your Daddy.

[Guest Prat]

Hi Xavier. 

 

If you have an issue with showing your Daddy naughty pics (and honestly who wouldn't after just a week....) then tell him you don't want to. It's well within your right. If he cares about you he will understand and give you all the time you need. If he gets mad or disappointed then he's just not a good Daddy and you're better off without him.

 

On a side note, asking for nudes within a week is a huge red flag and you should be careful...

[Guest pacibrat]

You just met him.  Do NOT feel pressured into doing something you're not comfortable with just to keep him around.  I know that we littles really, really, really want a caregiver, but it should be on our terms (at least at first) so that we don't get used.  Also, remember that any pic you send to someone could end up anywhere on the internet.  Let's face it, you don't know him yet (if he won't stick around until YOU feel comfortable, he just wants sex or sexual stuff and isn't a real caregiver anyway). There are people out there who use other people for naughty/dirty pics.......could be for personal use, could be for a website they run......you'll never know.  Please be careful.  If you do decide to send naughty/dirty pics, keep your face OUT of them until you 100% know and trust this person, if ever.  Nothing wrong with choosing not to ever put your face in naughty/dirty pics.  Like I said, those pics could end up ANYWHERE and could also be used for revenge if they get mad at you.

[Guest PastelBabyBoy]

* sends hug to all of you* 

 Thank y'all so much i will tell him that i am not comfortable with it!

[Mikaitaku]

sounds like a predator, you might be better off just blocking him since talking to predators doesn't do anything useful

[Untwisted]

Seems it's either "tell him you're not comfortable" or "block the sick predator".  Not knowing whether you've been together since you met a week ago or you've known each other a long time and got together a week ago makes it difficult to know which is the better advice, but telling him how you feel about it does seem to be the best way to start.