LDR

[Guest Aykay47]

Hi , I'm very new to this DDLG lifestyle. I'm trying to learn as much as I can . I was wondering if someone could give me advice as to how I can keep my Daddy happy. We are 2000 miles apart and plan on meeting when I am back on the East coast. I just worry he will get tired of waiting on me and find someone else. Any advice would help so much. Thank you!

Side note : its not that my Daddy makes me feel like I dont make him happy , or that he gives off any vibe that he won't wait , its that my insecurities always get the best of me .

[Guest Prat]

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12632-cgl-over-distance/?p=68819%27%5DCgl

 

This post I made might help you and your Daddy out. Best of wishes.

Edited October 28, 2017 by Prat(Praetorian)

[Rebel]

Howdy AyKay (nice name btw lol),

 

I basically second what Prat just sent. But regarding your insecurities, tell him what you just said here, that your afraid he'll get tired of waiting. Personally, I would want to know to be able to quell that notion (which happened a couple days ago with my little and I because she was afraid and upset she might be holding me back, which I assured her she wasn't). The best thing to do would be tell him in my opinion, but everyone is different.

[Guest Sirchristo1]

Agree with all the above, we are in a semi LDR and communication is VERY important.

[Princesspoopybutt]

Make him feel involved in your daily life my daddy pretends to hold my baba while im drinking and will tell me stories if you cant video chat a good one is letting him choose your stuffie

[HisDumbBunny]

Any LDR is difficult (especially if you're insecure) but the best way to quiet that mean voice in your ear is to talk to your Daddy. Tell him when you feel that way, see if it happens around the same time every day/week/Month and then try to see if your Daddy can pay extra attention to you during those moments and/or you pay him extra attention during those times (send messages, pictures, etc).

[TinyMoonPrincess]

My daddy and I were long distance for 2 years. We had over 2k miles between us. We met up after a year, and then in August of this year, he moved and now lives with me! It is very hard to be ldr but it is not inpossible! We texted and called on the phone every day and we spent the night together on skype almost every night. We would do little activities together on skype, we would eat together, watch movies, color, tea parties, play stuffies and dollies. We would send letters in the mail, send pictures daily. We are both big into gaming so we would also play online games together too. I hope this helped a bit! <3

[TinyMoonPrincess]

Always always tell your daddy how you are feeling. Communication is super duper important! And if you guys set up schedules, like a daily call etc that will give you both something to look forward to