Big little

[Guest Aykay47]

I'm very new to this . I am a new little, but I've been told I'm not 'little' enough . and that makes me wonder , how can a bigger sized girl feel little? I feel so anxious about this and it bothers me a lot. Helpppp Pwease!!

[littleghostie]

I deal with this every day as well and it is sometimes super hard to still be little when you're not "little" per se. I just kind of think of all the cute chubby little babies there are and how everyone kind of moons over them! Chubby babies are the cutest! This may not be helpful enough, but if you ever need someone to talk to about it, I'll be here!

[Guest Thelittlebear]

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Lol, whoever told you that obviously has no idea what they're talking about. The last time somebody said I wasn't little enough, it was a manipulation tactic to try and control me, so that I'd act how they wanted and did what they wanted (I didn't because big me can see manipulation tactics from miles off) so be careful!!

 

The person that said this may have had an agenda and it's working because you're doubting yourself. Don't listen to them. 

[Guest ParanoidAsylum]

Whoever says something like that to any little doesn't understand what being a little is. There are quite a few out there who will simply never understand that littles come in all shapes and sizes.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Hello and welcome to the forum.  There are a lot of littles around here that have the same doubts as you, lord knows I do.  If you don't believe me, check out these topics:

HELP! Fat virgin little needing help!

I wanna be a little but I'm fat.

Too fat to be a Little?

Why is being a bigger little such a big issue to some people?

ideal body for little

Not so 'little' Littles

Too 'big' to be a 'little'?

Importance of body type?

Middle with poor self body concept

[Guest Aykay47]

Thank you guys so much. My Daddy loves me and loves my size , and we are working on my self esteem (had to make a list of things I dont like about myself , so we can work on them *pouty face*)

Ive always been insecure so that part of me wants to make me doubt that , little me is loveable as I am. My Daddy and I are working on this but I wanted to see if there were other littles that could help me. You're all so wonderful. Thank you so much

[meows kohai]

I can't tell what you mean... are we talking about physical size for real???!

 

I'm 5'8, barely shorter than my Daddy. If someone said that meant I wasn't little I'd hit them!! You can be little at any size or age!! (Preferably 18+ for this type of type of place but you get the idea)

[Guest SUeB]

This gets asked again and again. There is literally nothing physical that has any relevance to being a little or otherwise.

[blueberrymuffincorrie]

being (a) little is not about body height or size, nothing about the way you act, sometimes not even about age in any way. it's only(!) about how you feel and express your feelings and emotions. and nobody ever should be allowed to judge you. 

at least that's how i see it.