Feeling guilty being little

[RobbieBobbie]

I'm a 20 year old little boy and I love being a little but I sometimes feel guilty, I have my Pokémon cards and things but some family members and friends (I won't say who) say it's babyish and I should grow up which makes me feel even more guilty like it's wrong :/ does anyone else feel this way sometimes and should I feel guilty?

[Guest Ginger]

I used to. I enjoy coloring books, stuffed animals, things typical of children... a few friends or co-workers used to say things about it. It bothered me a lot initially but after I found my husband, he made me realize none of them matter. I am who I am. If I like coloring while laying on the bed with my stuffed animals and stuff, well then darn it, I'm gonna do just that! I know what people say can get to you but after awhile, you might figure out that this is just who you are. Don't change yourself just because others might not approve of what you're into. If it makes you happy, stick with it! ... as long as it's nothing illegal lol  

[RobbieBobbie]

Thank you that helps but it plays on my mind when I'm lonely you know? I still haven't found a mummy to look after me and reassure me when I feel like that if that makes sense?

[Guest Ginger]

It makes absolute sense. I'd suggest just finding friends until then I had to constantly reassure myself and talk to friends when I felt like that. 

[RobbieBobbie]

Ok thank you for your help

[TheDaddyest]

I'm almost a pure daddy dom. I play pokemon, watch age inappropriate cartoons, sleep with a teddy bear I am more loyal to than some of the actual people I know in my life with a heart beat. I like these things. There's nothing wrong with liking any hobby or toy no matter your age or even your role. Be yourself. Do your own thing. If people don't like it tell them that stuff makes you feel good and happy or secure. As long as you are comfortable with who you are and your interests or what you value it should be ok. Don't let people try and take away things that are important to you because they can't understand your point of view. 

[Guest SUeB]

Unfortunately people can be cruel. And doubly unfortunately we sometimes have to keep certain things to ourselves to prevent negative comments and treatment from others. But it's not always through them being cruel, sometimes people simply don't understand certain behaviour and attitude etc. They see it as childish. But as we know, there is a difference between childLIKE and childISH. Try not let it get to you so much. There will always be people in the world that can't accept you.

[Guest ~ Ducky ~]

Being a switch myself, I have to hide my little side because my little girl is always little, my family judges me, and nobody gets it. But, it's nothing to feel guilty about. You are who you are and you're perfect as you are. That's a lesson I believe, and it's proven true time and time again. ^-^

[Guest pacibrat]

I understand.  My ex-Daddy was always there to reassure me when I needed it.  Now, I'm single and have to deal with it myself.  Don't be hard on yourself about it.  We are just LITTLE.  Caregivers are important, but we can also be a big girl or boy for ourselves when we need to.

 

As far as my little stuffs, it is put away in my room.  I can't outwardly display little stuffs or act little in my household.  Unfortunately, that's the reality for many of us.