Littles having problems making friends?

[MilkyBun]

I hope I'm not the only one with this problem.. Every time I want a conversation, the person either disrespectful or the convo goes like this: 'hi'.. 'hey'... 'how are you'.. 'im fine'....'thats cool'.. and then it gets pretty stale after a bit. And I've noticed people that I actually want to become friends with has this "Ddlg is pedophilia"  or "anti kink 'mindset (thanks to anti-ddlg blogs) and its disheartening. I always complain to my Daddy about it (who has more friends than I do). I'm lonely most of the time so the only thing I could do is talk to my stuffies or find something else to occupy my time :c

[Guest Ginger]

It's the same problem for me... I suck at small talk, personally -,-"

[Little faerie]

saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaammmmmeeeeeeeeee, its hard talking to strangers. sometimes i find it easier to be snap frens cause you can kinda get an idea of what a persons like and also reply to stories and create conversations based on that!

[Guest Thelittlebear]

I know what you mean ! If you want to add me ill have a actually converstation with you and not just one wording you !

[littlecuddlebunny]

I made a friend today on here c: pretty proud of my little self. I'm usually horrible at making friends.

[MrWrongUk]

U dont need to tell friends about your kink.if you think its having a negative affect on you..just dont bring it up or talk about it.

But im sure on here u will find lots of littles to be friends with.

[Guest SUeB]

i only talk to people about ddlg when they are somehow involved in the kink world. Never once would i bring it up to vanillas. People don't need to know every single thing about me. That's intimate and personal. i am quite a social person, and have no problems with talking to anyone, depending on their attitude etc.

[Guest Alainnb]

Mhmmm....I Kinda get what you mean! I am usually socially awkward as well and rarely talk to people...but at our fakulty at university, there are SO many people liking the same things ( Japanology, Korean studies and Chinese studies) so it's easier to keep a conversation going....

 

HOWEVER.....every time when I talk with a person for a longer time and it's about a topic I really like ( Kpop for example ) ...I get sooo excited and start shining and jumping a bit in joy....that's usually the last conversation I have with them then even if I already knew them for a few days.....idk, does it just scare them away...? Ddlg is not popular here and not many even know about this ( I don't tell them as well, it's just my behavior) so I guess they are just overwhelmed...? It's sad tho, if you trust a person and get excited and allow yourself to go into little space but then always get rejected....... anyone else having experienced this...?

[Guest littlelisafrank]

I'm not good with small talk, either. I try and gear the conversation towards shared interests. I don't talk about DDlg or any other kinks unless they are also shared by the other person. You're not alone. *hugs*

[Guest Gotixbabbygurl]

I have friends but they are Work friends I can’t be me at work. :-( I want some little friends :-(

[Guest SweetKira]

Looking for little friends too!