New to DDLG

[Babygirl1015]

Hi everyone! So I guess I was hoping for some people to break down everything to do with ddlg. Recently started dating this guy and he told me he was into ddlg but told me to look it up instead of him explaining. He told me he likes being called daddy and the concept of taking care of someone, being protective. He likes extremely rough sex, hair pulling, belt spankings and calling me his whore. He likes how submissive I am but was wondering what else I could do to please him other then simply asking him? I like being submissive but want to know other things I could learn to please him without necessarily asking him. Thanks!

[Guest SUeB]

It was ok for him to suggest you read up on it in general, but awfully lazy of him to not talk to you about it himself. You could read twenty different articles, and get twenty different opinions. It's not the same for everyone.

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Okay, so... Communicating with each other would be a good start. A lot of newcomers tend to sit with each other and research it together, talk it all out, what suits them, what doesn't. He should have explained, that part has irked me a little bit... But it's great you're doing research too. The forums pretty much have everything you need.

[Guest Ginger]

He wouldn't explain it to you?? The heck.... Him telling you what he likes, dislikes, etc. is the best place to start. Not just having you hop online and hope you find the "right" information. It's just like SUeB said, you could easily get multiple answers. Maybe try talking to him again because if he doesn't know what he likes, then you scowering the net for information isn't going to do you two any good. I mean, by all means, if you find stuff you like, suggest it to him! But him just not telling you anything and suggesting you look it up yourself is so not a good way to start this off. Just like Barbie said, communication would be a great start.

[MrWrongUk]

I find it strange he wont tall to you about it tbh...but if its going good and you are happy..then i cant say its bad...still strange

[Guest Arc]

Things are different to everyone. One dynamic won't be the same as another, and one person's likes won't be the same as another either. You really have to communicate those things, which does mean talking to him and asking.