Help finding a caregiver

[aKittyBoy]

Hey guys. I've been trying to find a caregiver, but haven't had any luck. Does anyone have tips/advice that can help? I don't really know what I'm doing.

[Guest Loki]

Make lists - what you need, what you want, what you don’t want, and what you won’t tolerate. What you need and what you won’t tolerate are deal breakers, what you want and what you don’t want are things you can compromise on.

 

These aren’t a checklist to put against anyone who shows interest. It’s so you can know yourself. A person can’t find what they don’t know they’re looking for.

 

More actively, have you done a personal? That’ll boost your chances.

 

Posting a picture will boost your chances too - humans are highly visual creatures, and even a pic that just reflects your personality (like my Shadowhunter icon) will tell people more than a generic “blank” icon.

 

When the chats up and running, go there! The best way to find someone is to mingle

 

Best luck!

[Guest SUeB]

You could also consider joining fetlife. But only if you have a thick skin, and can deal with a lot of fakes and players, lol. Just be wary and keep your adult brain switched on there. But of course real, genuine people exist on there too. i have met some real scumbags along the way, but i have also met some lovely real friends, and that's where i met my incredible DaddyDom.

[MrWrongUk]

Its super hard to find what you need...i expect its even harder for girl because some guys will say anything

Like that person said fetlife is a option,..but its all the same..my advice is just stay active on places like this

And maybe u will get lucky. Just take it easy and slow and you will find what you want.