Warning signs?

[♥ BrownBunny ♥]

I love my daddy to bits despite not knowing him for very long. But that's the thing.

Littles, in your experience or Daddys, by your knowledge, what are the warning signs of a Daddy who just wants to take advantage? Or wants the relationship, but not for the right reasons? I'm curious. I really want this to work out and I think it will, I just get paranoid and anxious about it sometimes.

[Guest SaladHater]

Is there something going on in your relationship that’s making you ask this question? Just trust your gut is what I would do

[Guest McLeodLot65]

Overall I like the information in the list at https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/13644-is-my-relationship-abusive/. Edited October 23, 2017 by McLeodLot65

[osito]

Thank you for that link, McLeod. So helpful

 

Brownbunny, make sure you read that. Sooooo many littles (and people on the sub end of things) get into these situations where they are hurt because they think that because they are the s type, they have to put up with terrible crap that their partners do. No, no, no. Educate yourselves! Understand that you should be fulfilled and be doing things that you truly want to do. I'm not shaming here. People who take advantage of their d type roles should be held accountable, but the types of people who purposefully take advantage probably aren't going to change their ways.

Ok I'll stop now.

Everyone, read that post!!! >_<

[Guest Derptronic]

This is how I feel about BDSM in general, and red flags. Ask yourself these two questions:

 

Do I feel happier, more fulfilled and generally better off for knowing and interacting with this person?

 

Do I feel physically safe from lasting harm or danger when I am with this person?

 

The answer to each should be a really simple, easy "yes", without any question or hesitation.

 

If it is, you're probably just fine to keep exploring to see if it could be a good relationship for each of your needs. If it isn't a simple, easy "yes" to both questions...

 

Well, that's a bright red flag.

[SkunkPrincess]

It's quite hard to tell the red flags of a Daddy. It differs per person. You should ask youself: Do I feel comfortable? Do I trust him?

 

Ofcourse there are some red flags, like asking for nudes or too much personal information, while not knowing eachother long enough.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

The following topics might give you an idea of the most common answers:

 

Important question bout Daddies

What are the red flags for you?

Red Flags for Littles

How to tell if someone is a "Fake" Caregiver

You just met me? Um.. don't say you're "Daddy"
Percentage of "creepy" DD on the internets

Serious?

Red flags,