My daddy is being distant

[Guest Sillygirl22]

My Daddy and I are in a LDR and I love him. We were planning on seeing each other but my daddy doesn’t want to anymore since school has started and he said it’s not worth the drive. Lately he’s being really distant and spending so much time with his friends and homework he barely talks to me. And I spend the majority of my time waiting for him to text me back. I’m not trying to complain I love him so much and I want to marry him but I don’t know how to tell him but I think I should wait to tell him when I see him in real life. Sorry I’m not good at writing. I guess I’m just trying to say that I’m not sure he is serious about me. I want to be his little girl forever but idk if he wants the same. He says he does. Maybe I am just being overly sensitive like my family says I have been my whole life. I think everyone is just going to tell me to ask him but I have and he says he wants me forever but once I asked him and he said he’s not sure and so I started having a mental breakdown and then he said he just meant we don’t know if we can be together because one of us might die before we see each other.

[Guest McLeodLot65]

"one of us might die before we see each other"? That's an odd way to phrase it. Added to the other things you told us about him, is it possible he is depressed?

[Guest Sillygirl22]

I don’t know know now I’m worried about him im going to take care of my daddy❤

[Emptyquiver1994]

He may feel like Hes not making you happy because you guys are in a ldr. Sometimes daddies will take the blame if you are sad or miss him a lot or are just separated for awhile. Sometimes its normal for the daddy to be depressed but in this case I think you should see him more often. And when Hes depressed which happens to everyone the most you can do is just be there for him since your a little its also your job to make him laugh and smile and be happy just as much as its his job to do it to you. You don't have to take my advice I've only been a dd for 5 months but I have learned a lot and sometimes Im depressed and my little girl doesn't understand what to do. Its not herfault or yours sometimes us daddy's just put too much stress on ourselves from time to time and we take it out on tube ones we love especially our littles. But if you want more help ask me Im always willing to help. But like I said Im not the best dd or the worst kinda inbetween. Lol.

[TheDaddyest]

Lots of things could be wrong. Stay skeptical but don't those feelings interfere with your relationship though.If things go bad you need to be prepared so it doesn't hurt you as much as it seems it might. I know things seem awful and if he chooses to not want to be with you anymore it will sting. but a daddy who says they want you forever even once they clearly have decided the opposite are definitely not worth having if that's the case. Be patient and feel things out. Things will reveal themselves soon it seems. 

[Guest DaddyCares1]

You sound a bit over attached. You haven't met him and want to marry him. 
Ask him how much attention he can give you despite his busyness. When you have an answer, you can decide if that's enough for you or not. However friends should not be becoming before you, not constantly anyway. 

[Guest SUeB]

i did not need to read any more after seeing that he said you weren't worth the drive. Think about that. You are NOT WORTH the drive. Don't know how to word it without coming over as overly negative,or even condescending. The reason for his behaviour does not matter.

You are definitely over attached, and apparently for no reason. You've never met but you say that you love him and want to marry him. The best advice i can think to give you is to read the blatant signals he is giving you, and move on.