Daddy doesn't want to be a daddy anymore :(

[Peachy.Princess]

so i've been together with my bf for over a year, and around 6 months ago we stopped doing ddlg stuff cus he didn't feel like it at the time. i figured it was just a phase but its been 6  months and not being a little rly kills me, idk what to do. oh and we live together, and before we stopped he rly rly like being my daddy and we both agreed we probably couldn't do a relationship without it, cus of how special it makes the relationship.

 

Has anyone been in the same situation before?

 

[Guest Dulci]

Have you tried talking to him about it?  

 

We all go through changes and cycles, but it's best to be open and communicate about it. 

[Kuromi]

Oh yes, I´ve been in a situation almost exactly just like this.
When I was with a previous ex lover, he seemed alright with it at first, but after time went on, he told me he didn´t want to have to remind me to do things all the time, meaning he apparently didn´t want to have to take care of me all the time.

The thing is, he hardly ever did, he didn´t have to remind me. I´m the kind of Little who needs help staying organized and needs help being reminded to do things. But he didn´t like reminding me. So I pretty much knew the ddlg relationship was a no go with him. I tried to let it go and just have a regular bf/gf relationship, but I will always want a part of a ddlg relationship as well, I need the best of both worlds to be happy. A ddlg relationship, and bf/gf relationship.

Things ended up not working out with him and me, so we parted ways. That´s when I realized I wasn´t in a happy relationship. I ended up having to push away a side of me that was a part of me, which I really hated. If being a Little is a part of your life and apart of you, don´t let someone else push that away, and don´t let them take it away from you. They should be able to accept you for you. I´m not saying things won´t work out, but if things like that keep happening, I´d suggest having a serious talk with him about your relationship. I know, it seems scary.. I was scared to when I had a serious talk with my previous, but It´s well worth it to get it off of your chest, trust me.

After time went on, I eventually found a new Daddy who I´m with now, and he is also my boyfriend as well, which makes me extremely happy to be able to have a regular relationship, and a ddlg relationship. I promise things will get better for you, be strong, and keep doing your best that you can  

Good luck!~ <3