Falling for my Daddy

[roxiedivine]

We met online looking for a dd/lg dynamic. I'm new to it, He isn't so much. First meeting and I think I've fallen for him. However, his profile states that he is looking for a play partner. My question is - How can one truly be a little - adoring and trusting their Big, and the Big caring for the Little - and emotions not get involved. How does one just 'play' with emotions and not expect them to become real?

[Guest SUeB]

You have fallen for him after meeting him once? More likely its a frenzy situation. And to some people emotions are important, to others its just fun, sex and kink. Sounds like you both want different things. But then again, if you have only met once, its far too early to expect someone to suddenly change their profile.

[Guest Ginger]

Are you both clear on what you want out of this relationship? And I wouldn't have expected a profile change immediately. Have you both agreed you're monogamous or are you just simply dating and/or trying things out? But falling for a person after one meeting is... fast, to say the least. It sounds more like you've fallen for the relationship dynamic and maybe not quite the person, given you haven't had the time to properly figure each other out.

[Guest Arc]

I doubt you've fallen for him. It's probably just the excitement of meeting someone new. 

 

I wouldn't take his profile too seriously unless you've asked him and he's confirmed that's what he wants. I know plenty of people who say one thing on their profile, but are actually open to more with the right person. And I know people have different definitions of what a play partner is. Did he ever say no emotions, or is that just your definition of play partner? It may be different to him.

 

In all honesty it's just a conversation you really need to have asap. You can't really ask what you can do about a situation when you don't know what the situation is.