He's open to doing more!

[Guest Ginger]

I'm so excited!! I finally found the courage to ask my husband if we can kinda take this more towards being a lifestyle than just something we do in the bedroom. I asked him if he would be willing to give me rules and he said yes! I explained I was really nervous asking him and he assured me I had nothing to be nervous about Then he wrote me some up and sent them to me, I agreed with them. We talked about it today and I asked him if he was just doing this to make me happy or if he was really comfortable with it. He admitted he really likes having the rules for me and was comfortable with all of this, then asked how I felt about calling him Master outside of the house. I told him I would if he wanted it and that I wouldn't mind being called Kitten more often ;w; Of course nothing obscene or sexual in public (just him giving me little orders like what side to walk on--not next to the street, etc.) but I'm just extremely happy about all of this! He's so amazing <3 Oh, we use Master and Kitten because I'm not comfortable with calling him Daddy ;w; sorry, just a kinda happy post thingy!

[Guest dadBADDY]

All I have to say is I think this is so rad! Good for you and your husband and I'm so happy you had the courage to ask.

[Guest SUeB]

Thats great. It's funny, when i first met my Daddy, that is all i ever called Him, but we have evolved as we have got closer, and He is now mostly Sir. Told Him i still need Daddy though, and He smiled and said Daddy is always there. i occasionally get a bit muddled with what to call Him. Daddy/Sir and Master all pool into one sometimes! He is all of those things and more to me.

No need to apologise for not liking the name Daddy. This "lifestyle ", when it is genuine, has nothing whatsoever to do with the particular names.

Good luck on your journey together.

[Guest Ginger]

[Guest Ignea]

Hi Ginger

 

I am super glad for u that your hubby is open for it and does even make the effort to make it work. So njoy,  sounds u won a jackpot.

Communication is the most important thing ao keep that up and as long as you talk to him about how you see things and want things, plus what he feels and wants.

Is sure looks healthy and magical.

[Amy<3]

I am happy for you, but at the same time I think you should be careful. It can be fun and exciting to try new things outside the bedroom. Just make sure that following your CG's rules isn't the only thing taht makes you proud. It might seem like it but that's not a fulfilling life. Make your CG proud by being a badass at work as well even if that isn't part of the rules. It's a great feeling to have your CG be proud of one of your actual achievements, and not just of being in bed by 11 pm or sth lol. Edited October 26, 2017 by Amy<3

[Guest Ginger]

I am happy for you, but at the same time I think you should be careful. It can be fun and exciting to try new things outside the bedroom. Just make sure that following your CG's rules isn't the only thing taht makes you proud. It might seem like it but that's not a fulfilling life. Make your CG proud by being a badass at work as well even if that isn't part of the rules. It's a great feeling to have your CG be proud of one of your actual achievements, and not just of being in bed by 11 pm or sth lol.

 

We are careful. And it isn't the only thing that makes me proud. I have things I do in my own time that I'm quite proud of and he knows this too. We both have lives outside of the our dynamic, it isn't the only thing we do.