angelll Posted October 17, 2017 Report Posted October 17, 2017 Recently my boyfriend and I discovered the DDLG community and decided to 'give it a go', we are in a long distance relationship and he is wondering if anyone could give him tips or advice about 'how to act/what to say?' He is slightly insecure and didn't want to post himself. Thankyou, Angel
Guest ~ Ducky ~ Posted October 17, 2017 Report Posted October 17, 2017 The core aspect of starting out is to ease into it.. Find what works for you two and go from there. I also recommend checking the 'Resources' section of the forum. Good luck, and welcome to the community!
boomslang Posted October 17, 2017 Report Posted October 17, 2017 No one can really give him a script to follow, but the two of you could work together to try and figure out and develop your own style. For example...Is your little side sexual or NOT sexual? Do you want to be babied, spoiled, reprimanded, directed, punished? What activities would you like to do together on the phone, Skype, etc? Color, watch movies... He could send you pictures to color, you could send him pictures you colored. Are you into rules? Bedtimes, chores, morning check-ins.. Do you like tasks? Like having him give you little jobs like writing a summary about your feelings on XYZ or making a list of movies you'd like to watch and so on. And does HE like those things as well? You could browse these forums, thread by thread, just to get conversation topics to discuss. 1
Iv0ry Posted October 17, 2017 Report Posted October 17, 2017 Welcome to DDLG! I remember when me and my ex (first and only) Daddy first found DDLG. Sadly I found it via tumblr, so you're good having this forum as a starting point. Me and my ex started off as long distance too until I moved in with him! We mostly had small rules that we'd agreed on, just daily rules to make sure that even though we were long distance, that I'd still look after myself as if he were there. And cute little kinky rules such as letting him pick out my underwear. It depends on what sides of the dynamic you want to visit.But definitely play around with it! Long distance DDLG can be done, and it's fun! If you wanna talk more about it, feel free to message me!
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