My boyfriend doesn't understand my little space.

[squishy.little.angel]

[Guest sunnybaby]

Have you shown him this website? If he's ever interested in learning more about it to see if he'd even like it, there are TONS of threads in the Caregiver's Cafe section to help with that.

[Guest chilldude]

Like Chelsea said, maybe you need to educate him about the lifestyle and the fact there's a lot more to it than just what happens in the bedroom

There's no reason to be critical of him yet, because he might just not know. If he does and is being ignorant, that's different

[boomslang]

Adding to what's already been said.....Also keep in mind that he may just not be into it.  And that's totally valid and acceptable and doesn't make him ignorant or a jerk or whatever.