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[Guest LittleMiss22]

Edited October 16, 2017 by LittleMiss22

[Guest jimmy3737]

Talk to him.  I cannot stress enough how important it is to keep communication going.  He needs to know how you feel and that this is affecting your relationship.  It also sounds like he may be relatively new to dd/lg based on what you posted.  He may not feel comfortable or know how to give rules and punishments.  You may need to help him.  Often when someone get busy and seems like they are ignoring us, it is just a matter of not knowing what to do.  He needs to know that it is okay to talk about these things.  Both of you can learn from each other as well as all those here in the forum.  This lifestyle is forever evolving for all of us.  And sometimes life does feel like it is in the way.  But you have to do what is best for you.  Talk to him.  He may surprise you and open up and try to do better.  It takes time and practice for us to find our true self and learn who we are.  Sometimes we need to know it is okay to explore those paths.  So talk to him.  Let him know you want to talk and what you want to talk about.  Give him a chance to gather his thoughts so that he does not feel blindsided.  Communication and trust some of the most important parts of any relationship. 

I hope this helps.  Please let me know if you have any questions.

[CheshireNitemare]

So if I read all this correctly you state multiple times he doesn't want to be a daddy. If he doesn't want to be a daddy then what's best for you both is to end the relationship and search for someone else. It isn't right to force someone to be someone they aren't. If he does truly want to be a daddy and not just someone called daddy you and he need to do some research and he needs to learn what being a daddy truly means. Also you need to set down and just discuss what you both want from this relationship. 

 

Hope this helps ^.^

[GothicDaddy]

Both Jimmy and Cheshire make excellent points. Communication is the key in everything, sit down and talk to him when your schedules are less chaotic and really define what you are looking for. If he does not want the same things that you do out of the relationship then as much as it may suck it would, in my opinion, be best to end it and continue your search for Your Daddy.

[Guest Prat]

He's not a caregiver by your description. He doesn't care, he's a fukboi

[Persephone_Persephone]

Sod communication at this stage. Move on and he will either step up as he will start realising you wont always be there waiting around. Or he wont care and you are loosing nothing.

Whilst he has free none commitment sex on tap I doubt he will change.

Seriously sounds like hes wasting your time and little of this has anything to do with the lifestyle. It happens to people kinky or vanilla. You deserve better.

[Guest SUeB]

Take "the lifestyle" out of it. Are you happy? No? Then either fix it by (firstly) asking him what he wants, and telling him what you want. Or end it. Simple as that.