Kinks in ddlg

[Blizzard kitten]

So my little and I are both new to delay and love the lifestyle but as have come to a point where we have tried some things but want to know what else as can try

Examples: spankings, clamps, fun sexual things, fun little things, fun Dom things. Really just anything.

Please please please I need help with this and thank you

[meiji]

since your username is blizzard kitten, might as well try petplay. have your little dressed up as a kitten (or just imagine, because what could be stronger than imamgination!) and purr for you. cheers nya :3c

 

blindfolds and foodplay are fun too!

Edited October 15, 2017 by meiji

[Guest SUeB]

Collar and lead, CNC (consensual non - consent), wax, edging on demand, no underwear in public, role play of your choice, breath play (but be extremely careful and stay away if you have no idea what you're doing. Just putting your hand around her throat can be enough), telling her what she must wear /eat etc when apart as well as when together. So many different things.

[TwilightSparklez]

Collar and lead, CNC (consensual non - consent), wax, edging on demand, no underwear in public, role play of your choice, breath play (but be extremely careful and stay away if you have no idea what you're doing. Just putting your hand around her throat can be enough), telling her what she must wear /eat etc when apart as well as when together. So many different things.

Good Glob there are so many things to try, paddling, breath play, flogging, pet play, bathroom control, objectification (making your little a footstool for example), wax play, anal plugs, just so much. Instead of continuing to list activities, might I offer a piece of advice? Sit down and talk over activities that you guys want to try, together, before you engage in them, especially if neither of you know if there are any existing triggers or if neither of you have a clearly defined limits list. This is also a great way to learn what you both seem to be excited about. Be sure your aware of the risk in whatever new activity you engage, that you know how to safely engage in said activity, and you're prepared in case something goes wrong and never forget a safeword. Research is your best friend. Elsewise have fun and enjoy learning about each other!

[TwilightSparklez]

Also if you go to google and type in 'bdsm play checklist' there is a link to a comprehensive play checklist by evil monk