Guest lilLibra Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Hi hi, I was wondering if any other little's have made the transition of moving far away to live with your daddy? I am currently in the process of moving in with mine and I am a little nervous that being someplace that I do not know anyone else except daddy... has anyone had a similar experience?
Guest NewYorkDaddy Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 You seriously need to take a step back. You just met this dude a few days ago. Seriously chill.
Guest lilLibra Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 You seriously need to take a step back. You just met this dude a few days ago. Seriously chill. Actually no I didnt? I have known him for months and he has been nothing but kind to me... what do you even know sir?
Guest NewYorkDaddy Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Actually no I didnt? I have known him for months and he has been nothing but kind to me... what do you even know sir? Yesterday you made a thread on how "recently" you met a daddy that is significantly older than you. On the 8th of October, 2 days ago you made a personal ad looking for a daddy. So you're either a fantastic story teller or a mega flake. Either way good luck. 1
Guest lilLibra Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Yesterday you made a thread on how "recently" you met a daddy that is significantly older than you. On the 8th of October, 2 days ago you made a personal ad looking for a daddy. So you're either a fantastic story teller or a mega flake. Either way good luck. As of then no he was not my daddy...... As of yesterday yes he was.. I felt bad about the personal realizing how much i did like him and I am just going to visit and then we are gonna go from there,,, And i have a bad home life and want to move away so please dont act like you know everything
Guest NewYorkDaddy Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 (edited) As of then no he was not my daddy...... As of yesterday yes he was.. I felt bad about the personal realizing how much i did like him and I am just going to visit and then we are gonna go from there,,, And i have a bad home life and want to move away so please dont act like you know everything I'm sorry your home life is bad but moving in with someone is a huge deal, especially if this guy is significantly older than you. He'll have a lot of control over your finances, your health, food, he will be in charge of your world. Sometimes young girls rush into things because they hate it at home. Out of the frying pan and into the fire can result. But yeah I'm done, I said my peace. Edited October 10, 2017 by NewYorkDaddy 1
Guest lilLibra Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 I'm sorry your home life is bad but moving in with someone is a huge deal, especially if this guy is significantly older than you. He'll have a lot of control over your finances, your health, food, he will be in charge of your world. Sometimes young girls rush into things because they hate it at home. Out of the frying pan and into the fire can result. Not everyone minds being taken control of.... I have healthcare and everything and i know he would take good care of me he also doesnt act or look like he is 40 1
Guest SaladHater Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 You never truly know someone until you live with them So like the other guy said, I wouldn't rush into moving with someone you've known for a couple months. What if things don't work out? Would you still be welcomed back home? I personally wouldn't let someone else take care of me unless I was financially well off by myself incase it didn't work out and ended badly. Just be careful and be patient you're a young girl who still has a lot to live for. 1
Guest NewYorkDaddy Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Not everyone minds being taken control of.... I have healthcare and everything and i know he would take good care of me he also doesnt act or look like he is 40 I'm not talking about care, I love being in charge. I"m saying this guy will have a lot of control over your life. If he turns out to not be as good as you think he is, he will make it hard for you to leave. You're young and even girls my age make mistakes in picking the right men. You don't have the experience or maturity to make this sort of choice. I think you're jaded by your home life and looking to rush into something as an escape.
Guest SUeB Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Oh for goodness sake are you seriously going to move to goodness knows where with someone you have known a couple of months? No. Just......no.
Guest lilLibra Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Oh for goodness sake are you seriously going to move to goodness knows where with someone you have known a couple of months? No. Just......no. Yah.............. Its more like a year...
Guest SUeB Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Fair enough. Sorry i should have asked first, just got the wrong impression from the other poster. Still a pretty short time though. Can i ask specifically how long?
Guest SUeB Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Fair enough. Sorry i should have asked first, just got the wrong impression from the other poster. Still a pretty short time though. Can i ask specifically how long?
Guest lilLibra Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Fair enough. Sorry i should have asked first, just got the wrong impression from the other poster. Still a pretty short time though. Can i ask specifically how long? Yea you may we have been talking on and off for over a year... When we first started talking i was 17 so i was skeptical and all.. but he has done literally nothing the whole time for me to think he is a creep we have dated on and off for a while due to me trying to supress my feelings for him.. I care so much about him and it would make me nothing but happy to stay with him.. yes i would have to start all over but i know i will be attending school and getting a job i can not drive yet but he goes all over so id go with him..
Guest SaladHater Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 It kinda seems like you're hellbent on moving in with him and just want to hear why you should move in with vs why you shouldn't move in with him. 2
Guest Alainnb Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 I'd never do this because I have trust issues and seriously...? Sometimes I'm glad I have them.... You said he lives pretty far away and you know him for a year now.... If he'd live in your city for example, it would be much "easier"....simply because you can return easily or sleep at a friend's place.... I know you trust him or you wouldn't have chosen him as your daddy....but please, not everyone is what they pretend to be and there are a lot of bad humans out there..... when you moved, he could ( I'm saying could) literally do anything with you....force you to stay with him, force you to.."work" for him, if you get what I mean ( look up "loverboys" for that) because you have nowhere to go......you might not even have enough money to return home by yourself...so what if you break up after a year and he won't let you go....? Please don't feel too attacked by all these comments, we just want you to be safe and happy so that nothing bad will await you....... search for a job ( only go when you got one), find out about how his place is structured and already make some contacts if you insist on going...Also make this rule that you talk to someone ( family or friends) every day at a specific time so that someone can check how you are doing and that you are doing fine.... it can also maybe prevent some things to even happen ..... be aware of the red flags ( e.g if he forces you to quit your job/ don't talk to friends anymore...) there is a thin line between dominance, TPE [...] and mental abuse, taking control with bad intentions [..] ...Yeah, that's it, I guess.... think all of this through again and again and if you decide to move on with him, do follow safety rules 2
Guest lilLibra Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 It kinda seems like you're hellbent on moving in with him and just want to hear why you should move in with vs why you shouldn't move in with him. Kinda yah...
Tinka Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 (edited) . Edited May 13, 2018 by Tiny_Tina 5
Creepy_Pirates Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 It kinda seems like you're hellbent on moving in with him and just want to hear why you should move in with vs why you shouldn't move in with him. More like "why should i move in vs why i should move in" seeing as how regardless of what we say she has already made up her mind >o<. I dont see this ending well but we can only hope for her sake, it does. 1
Guest SaladHater Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 More like "why should i move in vs why i should move in" seeing as how regardless of what we say she has already made up her mind >o<. I dont see this ending well but we can only hope for her sake, it does. that's what hellbent means haha 1
Guest SUeB Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Dating how? In real life, or online?
Guest lilLibra Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 Dating how? In real life, or online? Dating as online and skyping multiple times and texting all day
Guest 824 Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 (edited) b Edited October 11, 2017 by 824
curlyheadspace Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 (edited) I don't know if I can say something in this case, but it's not a good plan... I plan on moving in with my daddy in May next year and it would be our 1st anniversary. We talk for about 6 months now and it's not a long time but I am pretty sure about him. You said that you have been skyping with your Daddy and texting all day... but how many times have you seen him in person? Me and my Daddy are in LDR but we have been seeing each other every weekend since we met. So... it's not really about the length of time you text or skype with that man, but about the time you actually spend with him, eating with him or smelling his farts. It may seem funny, but it's life. You may not like how his apartment looks, maybe he's a messy person? Or maybe you won't like his everyday behaviours? You can never know a person if you don't have them beside you. You can text for a few years but then, when it will come to moving in, you won't get along in real life. You have to spend a lot of time in real life with him to decide whether or not he's the one true Daddy that you expected and wanted. Don't rush, because it can end up badly. Maybe you won't be chopped in pieces, but you can hurt yourself, your feelings or psyche. Because he won't be the only one to blame if something bad will happen. You will be too for your irresponsibility. Edited October 10, 2017 by curlyheadspace
Buffalo Posted October 10, 2017 Report Posted October 10, 2017 If it's ment to be it will be. Do what you feel is right. Nature gave you instincts for a reason, but don't let anything cloud your judgement. Set limits and stick to them. Know when and how to leave, if necessary. Do you!
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