Kink Shaming

[Iv0ry]

I always find myself saying that the cute toy/stuffy/anything little is for my young cousin? It's such a shame I can't just admit it's all for me.... 

[Guest littlelisafrank]

I'm sort of the opposite........when people think this is weird and deplorable, I understand.  From the outside looking in, this is strange and can look depraved when we throw sex into the mix. I'm a sexual little and I've had a bit of a rough time coming to terms with it.  I was once told adult pacis are disgusting and they "hoped I wasn't like that and didn't want one for myself". I have to hide my littleness in my household because of who I live with (which is okay, I don't want to be outwardly little 24/7).

 

Do I think it's depraved and disgusting?  No, but it was a bit of a struggle with not feeling "wrong" or "bad" for enjoying this.  The most important thing is that this is all between consenting adults.  Just remember that we've all had time to adjust to the idea because it's who we are.  Other people have not.  There are kinks out there that make me go ewwwww (not going to say what because I don't want to kink shame them), but as long as it's between consenting adults it's all good.

I have struggled with being a sexual little, too. I even keep that from most of my friends who are also littles, because I doubt that, although they wouldn't outright shame me for it, they wouldn't really like that aspect of my Littleness.

[binky-bun]

I react to kink-shaming one of two ways.

 

If it's just a general post joking/making fun of the dd/lg dynamic (Usually stuff making fun of the terminology or ridiculousness of it all -- "*hides in daddy's foreskin* ugu what's this? OwO" type stuff) I just laugh along with it and let it roll off me.

 

If someone is directly speaking to me, or has otherwise posted something about how the kink is "dangerous" or "disgusting" or anything like that--I just ignore them & block. I don't really have time for that stuff, since most of them aren't interested in discussing different viewpoints, they just wanna use slippery slope tactics to seem morally superior over something they don't even understand.

 

I'm fully aware that this sort of thing is "weird" so I'm prepared to see backlash. Life is just easier if you learn to ignore it and just enjoy yourself.

[shark]

I haven't even told anybody that i'm a little other than my Mommy of course. My parents think we're just dating, so they can't kink-shame me. I honestly think I'm too scared of being made fun of to tell anybody.