Need help guys

[ADaddyinneedofhelp]

Im new to the whole Ddlg lifestyle i am the caregiver and my s/o is the little and im in need of help as i dont really know what im doing. Help me

[Jotck8]

It would help if you were more specific with what you need help with, but in general it's up to you and your little to decide how you want things to work. There is no one way, so just find what works for your relationship.

[fatyknowsnothing]

The problem is you didn't tell us the problem

[ADaddyinneedofhelp]

I need help with rule ideas and rewards and punishments too

[Daddyprof]

If you are totally new to all of this, as it sounds like you are, check out the different forums here, like the Carefiver Cafe. You'll read about rules, ideas for punishments and rewards, etc.

[Guest dadBADDY]

I would start with determining what your little needs help with. I don't subscribe to the idea that rules are one size fits all. IMO, they are necessary to provide the framework for your little to thrive. So if he or she needs help with doing their chores, create rules that will encourage those chores to get done. Or if it's eating habits, create rules to encourage a healthier lifestyle. Punishment also should fit the crime, so start slow and work your way up, not the other way around. Patience is an ally, but be firm with your expectations and stay consistent. It's a wonderful way to show your s/o just how much you care when you're consistent with your effort.