Who met their daddy/babygirl organically

[Daddymanchetseruk]

So, not online, or if online, with absolutely nothing to do with ageplay to start with.

Would love to hear about people that did, and either introduced their partner to all of this, or even found out you both loved/needed this.

Im having no luck finding my babygirl.
I dont like chatting online, and would prefer meeting in person, but it seems most girls I speak to just want to speak online and nothing else.
A lot I suspect are probably in relationships or married, and of course a lot are just simply not who they say they are.

Id be very nervous about opening up about this to someone who doesnt know that I meet, but I suspect this may be the best way to find what im looking for

[LilGiggles]

Hello, I introduced my partner to this a few months ago it's been a very interesting transition for him.

[peter6111]

Hello, I introduced my partner to this a few months ago it's been a very interesting transition for him.

 

With all due respect, in my oppinion, it's a bit different having a little convince his/her partner to be a CG compared to a Daddy trying to convince his girlfriend to be a little, with all the fragility and the whole mindset it requires.  

[peter6111]

I'm not saying it's impossible though - not by all means. But it's not easy either. And it has to be something that your hypothetical partner would be comfortable with - She has to want, on some level, to be a little herself 

[Guest SUeB]

Met my Daddy on fetlife. He was a Dom, no knowledge or experience of ddlg until He started talking to me. i doubt i would have ever found what i was looking for in the real world.

[Greymalkyn]

I met my little on FetLife. At the time, I wasn't even thinking of being a Daddy, of it that was anything I wanted/needed. We started chatting and she mentioned that she liked some roleplay, mentioning ddlg at that point. As we talked about it, I realized that it was something I could completely dedicate myself to.

 

I had always been the sort of person in a relationship who tried to take care of and dote upon my partner, though had never found someone who truly appreciated and wanted such behavior all the time. So the more we talked about it, the more I realized that it would be what I needed, and she asked me to be her daddy.

[LilGiggles]

Having a conversation with my partner about my world was difficult it was not the easiest thing for me. I'm sure its a lot harder for a Daddy to convince his girlfriend to be a little but I was just sharing my experience I would assume either way would be hard.

[Guest DaddysLilBabygirl]

As a Little Girl...I would never bring this up to a guy in the "real world" unless I was extremely close to him as his girlfriend. 

 

But...I have noticed certain men exhibit "Daddy" behavior naturally, while others do not.  Since I am interested in this dynamic, I am paying close attention to how men treat me, what they say, etc.  For example, men who seem to have the character for being a Daddy seem to be more playful, caring, nurturing and protective...and are very grown-up.  They also seem to like little affectionate gestures...and are happy to take charge.  Sometimes they try to "look after" me in some small way, without being asked.  These are the things I am trying to find in a real life Daddy.

[Guest LuckyOversight]

I had met a few littles off Tinder, talked to one from okCupid, one in person. Sometimes you can tell by the way they dress or accessories they have. Then just talk to them?

[boomslang]

I grew up with my Daddy. We've both always had daddy/babygirl personalities, so we were in a ddlg relationship before we even knew what it was called.

[Guest Arc]

I met my Daddy at an event in our city. We hit it off straight away, and he slowly introduced me into DDLG. I was always into BDSM as a submissive, and he showed me another side of things that I learned to enjoy. 

 

I think a lot of people prefer to stay online because it's safer, but I prefer meeting in person so much better. 

 

Maybe start a FL profile and say on your page what you're looking for. Then go to local events and meet people in person, like at munches. That way it's out in the open what you're into and looking for, and you'll talk to people in person.

[Daddy's Meg]

I met my Daddy online in the 90s. We both were roleplayers in a world called Rhydin (AOL anyone?). Nothing bdsm related at all. I played a human and he played a werewolf who was a guild leader (I joined). We were just friends and sparred often, then got our characters together and slowly eachother.

 

As far as I know the term ddlg didn't even exist then. We met in person, fell in love and it progressed from there. As we aged we both leaned toward D/s and in the mid 2000s discovered that what we were doing had a name in the BDSM community (littles and daddys). The rest is basically history.

 

I'd say we both got very lucky but we've also always been very open with eachother about our likes/fetishes even when we didn't know there were names for them. Lol.

[LittleKitten13]

My boyfriend and I met through...uh...my ex.  We were both really good friends, then we started dating (ex was completely out of the picture at this point in time, for reasons that had absolutely nothing to do with this guy).  Everything was good, great, we were, and still are, best friends dating. 

We discovered that when it came to kissing and making out, I loved to pin him down and he loved to be pinned down, he liked me in charge and I liked being in charge...so that was great.  About 6 months into our relationship, I learned about DDLG, then I learned more about it, then I realized...oh wow, this is very much me.  I talked to him about it a bit, but he was a bit disturbed by the diapers, binkies and bottles that some littles have (I do have some binkies, but I rarely use them).  Then, we talked later, and discovered that both of us were also kind of little....

I think I'm more little than he is, and I definitely act more little all the time than he does, but sometimes he's my sweet little bear and I hold him close and love him.  I adore him when he's my little bear, and adore him when he's my papa.  There's nothing sexual about CG/L for us, it's all about caring for each other and being gentle with each other, things like that.

[Nymph]

I met Daddy online in a forum. The forum was about relationships, dealing with cultural and language barriers. It was not a place to meet anyone, very vanilla too. We even ended up each other advice on previous relationships here and there until we started messaging each other directly and only then (3 years later) we were both single and decided to meet in person as friends... but sparks flew and we got together and married real soon after that.

 

All my previous relationships have started vanilla but because of my personality and what I am attracted to I am guilty of converting them, including my now husband! he has been the only one I have given the official Daddy title though, I eased him into it very very slowly because he had a bad impression of the lifestyle.

 

I honestly think it's the best place to look, without labels and just let it happen naturally... of course back then it was not as mainstream as it is now so it was hard to find a place to look exclusively for the kink to start with! but honestly, if you are not into anything extreme like diapers and such, vanilla is probably your best bet. It's also quite exciting to help someone discover the lifestyle.

[Leo_Ascendent]

Met my Little on a dating app, they didn't ID as a Little, but did ID as submissive. After being together awhile, they just fell in to being Little.

[Guest infinitecases]

I met my Daddy without knowing about the dynamic, we just spoke about every day things much like a 'normal' couple meeting would, aside from the fact that we found out he was a dom and i was a sub quite early on . Then a few months later, he told me I was like a little... and then it went from there.

[diabh]

We found ourselves online; on an unrelated website. We clicked together in any possible way and then we met in person. We both were engaged with someone, but didn't care. At first we didn't know anything about the SM/DDLG world, but we knew we had certain tendencies because this wasn't our first relationship and we're not that young. It feels like we finally found what we've been searching.

Edited October 5, 2017 by diabh

[Guest BabyG]

I met my Daddy organically! 

 

We were friends since we were about 16 and dated very briefly when we were around 19, but I just wasn't sure about any relationships at the time. Over the next three years he was in a long term relationship whilst I dated a few people and I guess we both explored kink/ things we like to an extent separately. 

 

Then we got talking again when we were both single last year, I guess I've become very straightforward and upfront when it comes to sexual stuff (rough play etc) turns out he was into it too. Then I revealed my liking for ddlg (very shyly I must say) but he also had the same kinks and we explore all sorts together. I dunno it sounds very weird to talk about but it all felt very natural? We're in an open relationship currently and are very happy 

 

My advice I guess would be to look for a partner/date 'normally' and if if/ when sex/kink comes up just ease into the things you like. It doesn't have to be a crazy big deal, and if she's not into it and you don't think it'll work keep looking. I know it's a long road. I was introduced to ddlg by a really good friend a few years ago (we kind of dated online/ long distance) and I was really interested in bdsm. But when ddlg was brought up I wasn't fully into it/ accepting, for a while I found calling him 'daddy' almost awkward? However I've always identified as a submissive person and I love to please people so I was open to the idea. He then explained it to me as being a dom/sub or master/slave dynamic except with this WHOLE entire loving and nurturing side to it. I guess something clicked for me then and I couldn't think of anything that sounded better! I dunno I'm waffling a bit, but I think it's definitely not impossible to introduce someone to the whole dynamic, especially if you find out there's a submissive side to them, she might love it!  

 

Even though things didn't really work out with him we're very good friends and I'm so thankful because without that introduction to it I don't know if I would have found myself such a loving fulfilling daddy now <3 <3 <3 

[cutelittlevixey]

Daddy and i had been together for 2.5 years (and into lots of kinky stuff) before W/we ventured into ageplay or any type of DDlg.❤

[LittleBbPrincess]

I have been with daddy for three years but we truly fell in love last year , we were vanilla originally

 

After that we became inseparable and he found about ddlg and was very accepting and slowly he's becom my daddy. He's a natural and we think it's his kink as well as mine so it's worked out great

He took the bdsm test and he's 100% daddy kink too

[Daddymanchetseruk]

That's probably rare. Although if you where that close there would be that sexual chemistry to start with probably similar to ddlg in some ways.