Is it wrong to want a platonic DDLG relationship?

[Guest princess-of-the-giraffes]

​I​ just feel like there is something wrong with me because I really want to find a daddy that will take care of me and be strict and kind but not necessarily in a sexual way. Is there such a thing as platonic or non-sexual ddlg relationship?  Or is there just something wrong with me. 

Edited October 1, 2017 by princess-of-the-giraffes

[Untwisted]

There's nothing wrong with you for wanting what you want.  Not everybody's looking for the same thing and there's no reason why what you want is any less valid than whatever anyone else is looking for.

I'm sure there are plenty of platonic ddlg relationships going on, at least I assume so.  If a question is "does anyone else...?", the answer is almost certainly yes.

[Guest Volkmane1985]

Is it wrong?

 

No.

[Guest Prat]

Platonic isn't the same as non sexual though. And no, either of those is not wrong.

[Guest infinitely empty]

um actually thats part of the definition of platonic is non sexual

pla·ton·ic

pləˈtänik/

adjective

 

1. (of love or friendship) intimate and affectionate but not sexual.

[LittlePupRune]

There is definitely such a thing. My partner and I have several different dynamics, some of them are sexual, but our cg/l one is non-sexual. I'm pretty sure there are a few threads dealing with non-sexual cg/l on here that you should check out.

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

I don't see anything wrong with wanting a plantonic DDLG relationship.

[Big Bear737]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. I can't speak for everyone, but for my little and me DDLG is largely not about sex . The relationship can be what ever you want it to be as long as you're clear about this form the start and always talk things through. 

[lacey bunny]

My best friend and I are a platonic and have always had a bit of a caregiver/little relationship. Now that I think about it a few of my friendships are platonic cgl... I even have a few friends that call me mama, mom, or mommy and I have special Little names for each of them. (ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ*)

There is nothing wrong with wanting that and don't let anyone make let you feel that way!

[quinnie]

​I​ just feel like there is something wrong with me because I really want to find a daddy that will take care of me and be strict and kind but not necessarily in a sexual way. Is there such a thing as platonic or non-sexual ddlg relationship?  Or is there just something wrong with me. 

yesyesyes this is what i want toooooooo.

 

nonsexual ddlg, in which there is the care aspect but beyond that it doesnt have to be ~sexy~ ever. 

[Guest McLeodLot65]

The nonsexual dd/lg relationships used to be quite common online (ie the various proboards communities), not sure if they still are. I found them very fulfilling and see no reason why it couldn't be the same irl. By itself, or as part of a larger relationship, ie as mentioned by Daddydom, above.

[LittleKitten13]

My papa and I aren't sexual in cg/l space. Only when we're both big.

[meows kohai]

Nothing wrong with you at all!! You have to do whats best for you and your happiness. I'm sure you could find a daddy that is happy to be platonic! 

[Guest littlelisafrank]

Your DDlg relationship works how YOU want it to work. It could be sexual or non-sexual. It could be 24/7 or only on the weekends. It could be all kinds of different ways. There's no wrong way to do it. It's just about what you are comfortable with.