Ghosted/Abandoned

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

Hello,

 

So about a month ago, I met a really awesome mommy. Or so I thought. Everything was going fine until yesterday, when I assume I got ghosted. I don't know what led to it or if there was anything wrong. Everything seemed fine as far as I could tell. I don't know why I would just get ghosted out of the blue. I'd much rather know then be left hanging. I know the general rule of thumb is if you haven't heard back within 24 hours, you're probably being ghosted. Its been well over 24 hours now. I just don't know why, especially when everything seemed to be going fine. Any thoughts on why?

[Guest SUeB]

Nobody can tell you why. You will most likely never find out. As unhelpful as this is going to sound, it's just what so often happens. Nothing you can do. Just grit your teeth, shake it off and move on. Just part of the Internet game. Edited September 30, 2017 by SUeB

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

That's what I figured. I was hoping that maybe someone might have an idea though. I really hate the whole ghosting thing.

[Guest SUeB]

There could be a million different ideas, none of them will give you an actual answer.

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

I get there could be all kinds of ideas. I just would rather know, then be left hanging.

[Guest Prat]

Ghosting.. Maybe someone found out about her relationship with you and took away her phone / Internet, that can happen.. Or even worse, something might have happened to her. Ghosting isn't always intentional..

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

I know ghosting isn't always intentional. I don't think someone would take her phone, she was about the same age as me. That's what I'm worried about is that something might have happended to her. She did say she had a really bad migraine the last time I heard from her. At the same time, I can't help but feel I am being ghosted. I did leave a voice mail on her phone yesterday. I just haven't heard from her in over 24 hours.

[CallmeCoups21]

hey whatever happened?? Hope you are okay. I know how it feels to be ghosted..I had a"friend" do it to no only me but a group of friends.. no explanation... i hope you heal.. as to me i can never be so careful or trust like i did before. 

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

Its a long story. I wasn't ghosted intentionaly. Things are moving along per se, just gotta move along the rocky path, sometimes.

[Guest CaptainAmerica97]

I have had that happen to me more times than I know. That is why I don't do on line relationships any more

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

Well I wasn't ghosted on purpose. Though I have been ghosted on purpose before. I know online relationship can be hard, but for some, it can be the only way you find someone that is compatible with you.

[Guest pacibrat]

I have had that happen to me more times than I know. That is why I don't do on line relationships any more

 

Makes sense, but people in local relationships get ghosted too.  There are inconsiderate people everywhere.  I don't get why people can't just message, or text,that  someone that they're not interested anymore and that they're moving on.  It takes very little time and could save someone else the agony of waiting for nothing.