How to ask your Daddy to be your DADDY

[_DizzyPeach_]

I think I may have it a teensy tiny bit eaiser than most littles, because I identify a bit older (6-8) I don't particularly fancy wearing diapers and bibs or drinking from bottles or having the most stuffies or binkies in the world, but I do like to be babied, taught, and disciplined. I do like coloring while watching Sofia the First and drinking from an sippycup, but my 'Daddy' just doesnt get it.

 

It's not that hes particularly against it, but he always asks why im watching kid shows and why I act like a 'baby' to the point where I just do it when hes not home so he doesn't think im weird... He doesnt say or do anything mean, but I would just like for him to be my Daddy outside of sexy times. The problem is that he knows absolutely nothing of this lifestyle. I don't know how to bring it up to him that i would like to be this way around him all the time, and that i would like him to be my caregiver. How should I bring it up to someone who doesnt know what this lifestyle is? Any advice or personal experience wold help. 

[diabh]

Sit together, talk; make him listen. Don't stop until you're finished. Then give him time to process.

[Hot loving dom]

Communication is key. But he should be have to made to listen- he should want to.

[Guest DeOriginalMittens]

This is a tricky one. If you are feeling the need to hide it from him at this point from the comments he makes, he either is seeking understanding, or feels you need to grow up. I don't know his tone of voice, anything about him, or his mannerisms to quite help you the way you need. So INSTEAD.... I shall give you both instances and let you decide on which the better choice may be.

 

Seeking Understanding: If he is seeking understanding, then this is an easy one. Talking to him and explaining it to him as best as you can is best. My method for introducing an individual to DDLG is usually talking about the love, the relationship, age regression, I would show some of my favorite DDLG "posters" or "memes" and ease into the world of DDLG through showing the romantic, sweet sides. That way he doesn't get the wrong idea than many do and question it. He can see relation with feelings, and protecting, and caring for, and having rules and everything, provided this individual is a DOM. If this person is not a DOM, then he may find relation with the cuter little side and aspect of it. You need to create relation, if he cannot relate to any part of it, then he will want no part of it. That is common human nature. So find common relations where you see him acting a certain way and appeal to him, otherwise you will only drive him away.

 

He feels you need to grow up: This is a very very difficult one to deal with. If he feels you need to grow up, then he dislikes the immaturity behind it and you now need to find something here for him to relate to, much like the previous post, however the age regression will bother him. People who feel that you are immature and need to grow up tend to attempt to be intellectual or "adult" about things because they see that as being an adult, they find it mature. So you need to face them with logic and explain to them how age regression is a thing used in psychology to help tap into childhood problems as well as to help people cope with PTSD and many other disorders. This is a viable psychological practice, and he should have no reason to reject it's effectiveness. So you need to break his emotional barrier and affect his logical barrier while also affecting his emotional barrier. Because he needs to feel for you, he needs empathy if nothing else.

 

Honestly the later worries me, these are usually people who cannot accept other peoples way of thinking and other peoples lifestyles. No matter how much you two love each other, this is a breaking bond when the relationship is one sided. If you are willing to work through problem and he isn't, or if he can't live with this side of you, if either of you cannot accept something, then that something needs to change or the relationship status will change. Because you can't live with something you cannot tolerate at all. So you will have to stop DDLG altogether or he will have to accept it, or a breakup will be in progress. NOT ALL COUPLE EXPERIENCE THIS. I am not assuming he is like this, he could be very sweet loving and get through all problems, however I want to prepare you for all routes and possibilities and not feed you with hope and then he leaves, you are hurt and wondering what happened.

 

Once you establish DDLG and he understands, that is when you can easily ask him to be your daddy and talk everything through. I

 

I hope wish and pray for the best for you.