Little space question

[Jman1743]

Both me and my princess are Littles but after we have sex we tend to both go into our little space and and cuddle but she doesn't like it when I and in my little space any idea on how I can help this

[Guest greenhoney]

You can't change who you are just as much as she can't change who she is. Talk to her, and maybe try to work something out. But understand there's nothing wrong with your little side, or you being in little space, especially after something as intimate as sex. 

[Jman1743]

Its more that she wants me to be her daddy after sex but I fine it hard to not be in my little space after.

And that makes her sad and in turn gets me sad

[Guest greenhoney]

Like i said, talk to her and try to work something out. Let it known that you have difficulty not being in little space after. You can't just demand that someone come out of little space or go into "daddy space." people don't work that way. 

[Jman1743]

I try but its not very easy to have a really serious talk with my princess cuz as soon as something that she doesn't want to hear is said she go's so far into little space that she is only 3

[Guest greenhoney]

That's... a pretty big red flag. There needs to be happiness and compromise on BOTH sides. you need to sit down as adults and talk things through, otherwise you won't work out. if she can't deal with the fact that you yourself feel little after intimacy, and does not want to come to a compromise, you might have to leave her. your happiness is important too. 

[Jman1743]

It really doesn't matter now she just left me

[Guest greenhoney]

oh. I'm so sorry. hopefully you'll heal and find someone else. 

[Jman1743]

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