New Switch - HELP !!!

[ddskrt]

So if any of you have seen my recent "Mommy thinking of Switching" thread, then you have a bit of an idea of whays going on. (It doesn't really matter for this though.)

Anyways

I discussed being a switch with my partner for a while and we finally came to the conclusion that as long as we respect eachother and as long as were both happy, it's fine. This is great ! But, the problem is, she doesn't want me to refer to her as my caregiver often and I think that will be a problem.

I know some littles can go with only having a cg sometimes but I'm not like that. My little age is pretty young and when I'm in little space without a cg, i often find myself crying and whining because I don't have a cg who wants to be called my cg.

Its hard to explain. Hopefully someone will understand ehat im trying to say hah

[Guest SUeB]

Is the name really that important? Yes, you may identify as a little sometimes, but you are still an adult with the ability to understand compromise and the concept of not always getting your own way.

It sounds like your partner is giving you everything you want apart from one small detail, and all you are focusing on is that one extremely small detail.

[LittlePupRune]

Maybe see if there is a term you can use that satisfies your need but also doesn't make your partner uncomfortable. Maybe look into the alternative to "Mommy" and "Daddy" names and see if theres one that can fit, otherwise you're going to have to continue communicating and compromising on both sides.

[LittleKitten13]

Well when my boyfriend and I first discussed it, he was very uncomfortable with being called Daddy, but he was okay with papa... maybe something like that?