Issue involving sex in my ddlg relationship.

[Daddy2Alexa]

I met Alexa (my lg) on a "normal" dating website (imagine my suprise). Anyway, we've been talking on and off for a few weeks online & are trying to plan for the unexpected. She was very open about her lack of interest in sex. Me on the other hand, I have an overactive sex drive. I'm pretty sure I can go without (I can always do it myself) however, she isn't intrested in raising kids & this is important to me because im the last male in my family. But, I also don't want to abandon my way of life or her. Any ideas folks?

[Guest greenhoney]

while some people do come around later to the idea of kids, you'll have to make peace with the possibilty of never baring children, or find someone who shares the same interest as you. 

[Daddy2Alexa]

It would just devastate me to walk away from this.

[Guest SUeB]

You are extremely incompatible. Yep, you have to walk away in my opinion, or you will both be unhappy.

[DollDirector]

You have been talking with her  " for a few weeks online " and you are pondering about creating a family ? 

[Guest Volkmane1985]

You have been talking with her  " for a few weeks online " and you are pondering about creating a family ? 

 

MY thoughts exactly.

 

I'd move on from this one, I've chatted to girls online who say they will only have sex when they get married.  While that's a nice thing to do it isn't for me.

[Guest SUeB]

You have been talking with her " for a few weeks online " and you are pondering about creating a family ?

To be fair, many people (myself included) are only interested in finding something long term. So while it's ridiculous to mean such a statement in the context of "I've found the one!!" at such an early stage, there's nothing wrong with the general principle.

[Gemini26]

A relationship is always about communication. You state that you dont want to lose her, so therefore you should talk about the things bothering you. First make sure everything is all clear: why doesn't she want to have children? Why doesn't she want to have sex? There are all possible reasons, which may or may not be easy to "avoid". It's also an opportunity for you to make clear what you expect from her. Do you want sex once a week or once a day? Do you want one child or five? When you're having this conversation, you can always try to compromise things. If it turns out that that won't work, you can always think if this relationship is going to work for both of you. Don't take a decision too early

[diabh]

If you have a high sex drive, you cannot go without sex. You wouldn't last long, and even if you did, you would be miserable.

[jaredstone363]

Just my opinion, but I think you've "jumped the gun" a little here. You've only been talking to her for a couple weeks, have you met her in person yet or gone on any dates? I think you need to slow down and let the relationship evolve. Just my opinion and wish you the best

[ernesto23]

I met Alexa (my lg) on a "normal" dating website (imagine my suprise). Anyway, we've been talking on and off for a few weeks online & are trying to plan for the unexpected. She was very open about her lack of interest in sex. Me on the other hand, I have an overactive sex drive. I'm pretty sure I can go without (I can always do it myself) however, she isn't intrested in raising kids & this is important to me because im the last male in my family. But, I also don't want to abandon my way of life or her. Any ideas folks?

 

I think you should go slowly and "wake her up", I mean show her some emotions and her sex drive will be much better. Trust me