Can't be little if you don't have a CG??

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

It was on Tumblr and I found a post, saying that it can't be little if you don't have a CG. And that made me feel really bad. Because I feel this way, like a little (middle actually). And to say that you can only be if you have a CG, I think it is a terrible form of invalidity to single littles. It is not the first time I've seen. Sometimes when I look for tips for activities like little, they all include a CG.

I do not know, sometimes I feel that people forget that there are littles without CG and atomatically assume that if you're a little it's because you already have it, and your advice goes to that. It makes me feel like we're being left out.

 

I'm sorry if this comes to offend someone, I hope not, I just wanted to comment on this.

 

 

 

[Zacky]

I feel ya. I've been my own CG for so long it's like split personality at this point.

[lacey bunny]

That's like saying you're not valid unless you have a significant other...that's so weird to me.

If you're a Little than you are one, with or without a caregiver.
 

To all the AB, Littles, Middles, Nymphettes, Pets, even Caregivers and Owners that are single and doing it alone, that have a significant other that isn't a caregiver/little, that have busy caregivers/littles and gotta caregiver/little Space alone, the ones that don't fit into stereotypes lots of    and respect to all of you! You're valid, you're beautiful, you're fantastic and please don't let someones opinion of something so silly to bring you down.

[Guest SUeB]

Lol yep, what a load of rubbish. Does that also mean i can't be a mother if my kids grow up and leave home?

[Guest violeta]

You can be a little without a Daddy or a caregiver 

Go watch some movies or play by yourself (or other little friends) with your toys and be happy. 

[Guest infinitecases]

I don't see why you can't be little without a caregiver. Without knowing I was a little and before meeting my daddy, I used to act exactly the same, except less often? or only in situations where it included friends/family I was comfortable with. I played with my teddies all the time absentmindedly, took them on adventures with me to different places and took photographs of them :') I've always had a blankie for as long as I remember and watched disney movies by myself too!! Plus I used to always speak gibberish and random mumbling words and lie myself over people's laps on the sofa  

 

It's never really been a thing where I think 'wow I'm little today!', it's more just a normality It's perfectly okay to entertain yourself without a caregiver, don't listen to what they say! 

[Guest Lepus]

That is nonsense! Of course you're a little without a Daddy or CG. Pretty much echo what everyone else has said. But do take time out to be little even if going to movies with your favourite stuffie to see something. Stuffies love movies! I know mine does. Or take them for adventures and picnics  

[Lilwitch]

You can be a little without a Daddy or a caregiver

Go watch some movies or play by yourself (or other little friends) with your toys and be happy.

Agreed. You can be little without a cg or Daddy/Mommy.

I colored in coloring books and played dress up, cute games and all sorts of of things when I was single.

Edited September 22, 2017 by Lilwitch

[Guest Aurora_dev]

I feel ya. I've been my own CG for so long it's like split personality at this point.

same here! it is really exhausting..and i didnt know about ddlg for so long and so i assumed that something was wrong with me...it is very hard if you dont have a partner with cg-characteristics as well...

but now that i know about my little/middle side i try to embrace it by my own. like others here in this thread mentioned..play by your own...give your little self space... enjoy life

[LilWittle]

Don't listen to that. If you are enjoying what you are doing as a little and you are on your own and without a CG who cares what other people say.