What do you do when?

[DelilahDream]

Your Daddy wants to do something new and you REALLY want to please him and at least give it a whirl but at the same time the idea of it makes you totally nervous, self conscious and uncomfortable? Because that's where I am right now. I've already talked to Daddy and he said he won't be upset if I decide I'd rather not try it or if we do and I never want to do it again. How do I get over dreading it so I can at least attempt to try?

[gah!ghost]

It sounds like you guys are being very communicative which is great.Is this something you can try on your own? That might be something you could try to lower the anxiety and pressure. If its not something you can do on your own but still want to do it just take it slow and make it clear you may want to stop at any moment.

 

Talking about whatever it is with other people, especially if you know anyone who has tried it may also help assuage your fears.

[Xia]

Ghost has great advice there, also, if you really want to continue trying after the first time, even if it was unsuccessful, both of you need to not get frustrated, somethings take lost of practice! The more practice, the more likely it is to be successful! :>

[DelilahDream]

Unfortunately no, I can't try it on my own. It's a sex thing, I don't see a ton of that here so I'm trying to keep it PG. I honestly don't know anyone who's done the thing. I'm trying really hard to not over think it but... I can't help it. I told Daddy I might need a couple big girl drinks first. Haha. He's not pressuring me at all, which is super appreciated. Prior to being my Daddy he was mostly vanilla so he's tried lots and lots for me which is why I really want to do this for him. It's just really REALLY not my thing. Not a limit at this point just the idea of it makes me feel icky.

[gah!ghost]

I think if you mark a thread "NSFW" you can talk about sex stuff if you want to. People might also be able to offer better advice. You totally don't need to talk about it though if you're not comfortable doing so.