Hey I am new to this and looking for pointers

[Lonely_Master]

It is hard for me to do this because I have never done anything to a women and ddlg kinda is appealing to me and my girlfriend

[PrincessClara]

Hi there!

 

You said you've never done anything to a woman, so I'm assuming you're a virgin. The best advice I can give you is to talk to your girlfriend about what she likes. Even in the moment, when you're doing things asking her if she likes it etc can help you learn a lot. Don't be embarrassed about it either. You want to ask so you learn so you can give her a good time. 

 

As far as DD/lg goes, again it's all about communication. Ask her what she is wanting from this dynamic. Try to figure out what you want out of it etc. Read the boards on this site and it will help a lot as there is a TON of information here. This dynamic is not "one size fits all" so it's really all about what YOU and your girlfriend want it to be for you. 

[Guest SUeB]

Your title above your profile pic says daddy/master/sir. What do those things mean to you? And just as importantly, what do they mean to her? To many these are very serious titles earned over time and experience, to some they are cute bedroom names. Just asking, as you appear to have no experience in any of it, so just want to know - How do you see them? Why do you call yourself that? What do you both want out of the relationship? As long as you both see things in a similar way, that's all that matters.

[daddytomybaba]

I had never been with a girl before I met my little. The second time we had sex, we opened up to each other about our interest in bondage. Then, gradually over time, she opened up to me about her interest in DDlg, and I liked the sound of it too. All I can say is, if you love your partner and are in a mature relationship, your partner will likely be open to talk about these things with you. In fact, she may even likely respond well, as most people do have an interest in some aspect of BDSM, whether it be bondage, punishments, or general dominance/submissiveness. Just be confident in what you want and, if you both begin your DDlg relationship, be confident in what you do. A little wants to feel security with her daddy, so trust that whatever you do, so long as it is in your little's interest, she will respond well.