Do you have a list of questions for future daddies/ what you want in a daddy?

[Guest Sillylittlemouse]

I have a list of questions for potential daddies and a list of what i look for as well!

 

Does anyone else? If so feel free to share!

 

 

 

 

These are my questions

 

Name

 

How tall are you

 

Age

 

Location

 

What age little do you prefer

 

Do you want long distance or something in person

 

How many littles have you had

 

Were they online or in person

 

Do you like chubby littles

 

Do you want a poly or mono relationship

 

How strict are you from 1-10

 

How sexual are you 1-10

 

List of punishments

 

List of rewards

 

List of rules if you have any

 

If your little is not very sexual how would you react

 

If your little has an illness such as depression and they have bad days how would you react

 

Is this going to be a short or long term thing

 

How important are looks to you

 

Are you okay if your little is part of lgbtq

 

How would you react if your little is mad at you for some reason

 

Do you have a safe word

 

If your little uses the safe word what would you do

 

Do you have other kinks aside from ddlg

 

What are your hard limits

 

If your little loses a paci, sippy, stuffie ect.. what would you do

 

How would you make your little feel beautiful if she is self consious

 

If you were to add in a brother or sister how would you be sure both feel equally loved

 

If an ex little wanted to get back together how would you explain that to your little

 

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These are things i look for/want in a daddy

 

 

Checks on me to see if i am ok

 

Is a friend but also a daddy

 

Can have a good conversation

 

Is encouraging

 

Emotionally mature

 

Reliable

 

Has decent communication skills

 

Is patiant

 

Not to controlling

 

Allows himself to be vulnerable

 

Makes me laugh/ is funny

 

Is understanding

 

Is nurturing

 

Is kind/caring

 

is affetionate

 

Is playful

 

Is trusting

 

Is loyal

 

Is respectful

 

is ok my little space is non sexual

[Guest SUeB]

Do you give that list to them, or keep it just for yourself as a guide towards finding your "perfect" partner?

i do have a few absolute non negotiables when looking for someone, such as they have to be older, taller, monogamous, non smoking and pretty local. i made those things clear on my profile when i was single, and did check a couple of those things that weren't easily apparent when someone approached me. But i would never write a list like that, and i certainly wouldn't present anyone with one. i was looking for a full time, full and proper relationship, not advertising for a job position. i am old fashioned i guess, lol. i get to know someone by talking to them in a natural flowing conversation.

[Guest Lepus]

For me personally, I would not share any such list, this is out of respect for my future Daddy.  Yes I have what I would like a Daddy to be, but that is more for my needs. And anything regarding rules, permissions etc would be discussed at the suitable time. I suppose I am old fashioned in that way, I prefer to get to know someone through talking with them. If we hit it off then we can discuss such matters. 

I am not saying that such a list is wrong, there is no wrong or right way, I am saying it is not for me.