HELP (DADDY WANTS TO VISIT ME)

[BabyDollx18]

[HeCallsMePrincess]

Be careful. Meet in a public place. Make sure family or friends know where you are going and if possible bring a friend. Good luck and i hope it works out!

[Nymph]

YAY!!! congrats!

 

Is he coming to see you from very far away? if he is not super far then it's cool to wing it, you should mostly focus on not getting too nervous. If he is visiting from very far away though, it's better to make it clear what are you guys expecting from this meeting, have you guys talked about yet? will it be platonic or there is a good chance of going further?

 

You need to be prepared for the fact that the chemistry might not be there in person, it does happen. You also need to be prepared for fireworks! they happen as well and sometimes we get a bit carried away and do things without thinking!!

[Guest chilldude]

I'd choose a time/place where lots of people are around. You can never be too careful. A friend of mine did not, and it went horribly wrong

[BonBeau]

If you get along and have had good talks there's a good chance you'll have a good visit. it's cliche to say be yourself but your daddy is there to visit the real you. Even people who have met in person get nervous around each other. Picking activities or meeting places that are familiar to you is a good trick too!

 

Since it's your first time meeting in person I suggest taking some safety precautions. Doing this doesn't mean you don't trust him or that he deserves suspicion. Your daddy will surely be glad to hear that you're prioritizing your safety! Some important ones are to be sure you tell someone where you will be and for how long. Set a time to call someone to check in that way they'll know how you're doing. It's a good idea to not share where you live the 1st meeting. Keep the line of communication between you and your daddy open and talk to each other about boundaries. You have a right to set a boundary about anything and everything. It doesn't mean you're misbehaving or being bad. Healthy relationships are happy relationships!! I'm sure you'll have a great visit.

[Guest PrincessKittyx]

Start small with video chats. Its gonna be totally awkward at first, but not as scary as meeting for the first time if you've only been texting. Eventually you'll get comfortable. Just explain that you're nervous and might disconnect if you get uncomfortable.

[BabyDollx18]

Thank you so much for all the advice everyone ^^ I am definitely going to take precautions with my safety and let someone know where I am as someone mentioned above. I live in Southern WI and he currently lives in Indiana so its kind of a long trip. I do plan to start with video chats soonish I just havent mustered the courage to do so. But he is being very patient with me which I think is a very good sign I'm fairly new to all this so all the advice you can give me really really helps. <3

[Guest Sillylittlemouse]

Everyone has great advice and i feel pretty late!

 

1.) Always meet in a public area

2.) Try to bring a friend or family member on your first meeting

3.) Skyping, face timing, ect is always a good idea

4.) If you feel uncomfortable do not go through with anything

 

It is great that you found a daddy but please please be careful! ❤

[BabyDollx18]

Thanks ^^ I will be careful, I sadly dont really have friends but Im going to make sure a family member knows where I am and make sure to call and check in. He said we could do a movie or something simple like that. Im very excited ^^