Am I allowed to be a Little?

[Guest HeartOfSugar]

Hi there! I'm sorry if this thread isn't actually supposed to be here, but I'm not really sure where else to put it... 

 

So I don't know a whole TON about DDlg, but I've done some research and learned a bit from my girlfirend's two Pet/Little friends. I was prompted to post this thread when one of those friends got really excited and told me I was a Little. 

 

I love pastel colors and pretty girly cutesy patterns and clothes (casual lolita, decora and otome styles are my jam), I'm hoarding multiple giant stuffed bunnies (my girlfriend has even nicknamed me Bunny), I like to use baby talk 85% of the time, love to be in any area/position/under a million covers to make me feel small and safe, and cuddles and smooches are my lifesource.

But I also cuss like a truck driver and am six feet tall. So there's that.

 

Does that qualify as a Little, or am I just hyper-feminine or somethin'?

[Mikaitaku]

Yes it qualifies you as little.

[lacey bunny]

Sounds like a little to me   

 

Also how you are on the outside doesn't make you any less or more than a Little than someone else, so don't worry about height. Same with likes and dislikes, every Little is different.

As for the cussing, I cuss every other word. I get in really big trouble with my Daddy for it

Edited September 16, 2017 by lacey bunny

[HeCallsMePrincess]

If you're little, you're little. No dom or sub or caregiver or little looks the same. It doesn't matter how big you are, or how small. You can love stuffies and pink or video games and black. None of that matters.

[Guest SUeB]

You can like all that stuff and not be a little, just as you can hate all that stuff and absolutely be a little. That isn't what makes you one. It's not up to anyone else to tell you what you are. Not very helpful i know, but it's impossible to answer your question.

[boomslang]

Me being little is about how I feel inside and not so much about cute or baby stuff. If you FEEL little, then you're little It doesn't matter how tall or short you are or what pattern you have on your bedsheets. Bunny is an adorable nn!

[Guest Cutesylil_honeybun]

Exactly what everyone else said, if you feel little then yes you are little, it doesn't matter what you look like or behave like or what you do or don't like!

Just because you cuss doesn't make you any less little, we are all adults after all and there are times when you will act big, so that honestly doesn't make you any less little

Heck I've heard real kids who are like 8 swearing their heads off in town so I really don't think that matters.

I always worry whether I actually go into littlespace or not but then I just remember that it doesn't matter as long as deep down inside that is how you feel you are

So just have fun exploring what makes you tick and be yourself!

It always makes me happy to see new people discovering this part of themselves

[Guest Arc]

There is no set way to be a little. It's person specific. You don't have to like and do all stereotypical little things to be a little. You just do what you like. There's no way to be a little or not be a little. It's just what feels right.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

There is no qualifying exam that you must get 70% correct before you can identify as a little.  I promise, no one will be testing you! 

 

As far as height goes, there are plenty of tall littles out there.  Check out this thread: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/21771-any-tall-littles/

[LittleKitten13]

It sounds like you're little to me.  I'm very little so much of the time, but when my boyfriend and I get sexual in almost any way 70% of the time, I am a dom, 5% of the time I am a sub, and 25% of the time, I'm just plain vanilla.

[Guest HeartOfSugar]

Wow, thank you everyone for all of the kind and helpful responses! I really wasn't expecting so much input, I'm really greatful (/)u(\)

Everyone in this community seems so kind and welcoming! I'm excited to learn more <3