How to Control LittleSpace...PLEASE?!?!

[Guest PrincessFluffyPanda]

Soooooo as of late, I have been going into LittleSpace into really weird and inappropriate times of the day...like, weird things will trigger it and I can't stop or control it. Today I went into LittleSpace in front of daddy's boss and now I know I need to control it.

 

So best advice on how to do so?!

[Leo_Ascendent]

Following this, my Princess does at times as well, usually when they are referencing me, or when someone asks about me.

[LittleKitten13]

Oh, I wish I knew.  I try to stay big, but sometimes, even if I have things I HAVE to do in big space, big me goes right out the window, and it's just little me.

[princess sophia]

i wish i knew too

i have to be big girl most of day cos of collage but t goes outta window when ever anyone mentions daddy

[HeCallsMePrincess]

What works for me is getting away from the situation if possible. Taking a minute to remind myself that this isnt the same and rewarding myself later if i succeed! Sometimes, i just let a little Little out lol like at work i can hum my fav Disney songs and think about my pictures im going to finish coloring for Daddy later

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Hey, this thread might be useful: Little space at an inconvenient time. Can it be stopped?

 

Combining the answers from both threads, it look like making time to be little is a huge part of keeping it from intruding on your "big" life.

[Guest PrincessFluffyPanda]

What works for me is getting away from the situation if possible. Taking a minute to remind myself that this isnt the same and rewarding myself later if i succeed! Sometimes, i just let a little Little out lol like at work i can hum my fav Disney songs and think about my pictures im going to finish coloring for Daddy later

Thank you!! It's usually when they talk about him or they put on a cartoon or I see something I want like one time it was a glitter tumblr and the it was green, my favorite color. I will try this!

[Zacky]

See, I have my own office in the dungeon of the building, so I can do lots of little things without being a pest; but when I absolutely have to adult, I try to disassociate. I've been my own CG for so long, I tell my little side that if he's good we'll get him a special treat.

 

This weekend I took him to Build A Bear for the first time (I'd never been either) and gah - I'm pretty sure the stuffing lady saw through my grown-up disguise... but it's okay, it's appropriate there, I think.

[PurpleBabygirlPrincess]

What works for me is getting away from the situation if possible. Taking a minute to remind myself that this isnt the same and rewarding myself later if i succeed! Sometimes, i just let a little Little out lol like at work i can hum my fav Disney songs and think about my pictures im going to finish coloring for Daddy later

 

I have to do the same as far as rewarding myself later. I own my own business so adulting is imperative at times, of course. I also have three kids and a husband who have no clue about my little side. I just discovered it myself a few years ago.

 

I have always loved to color and draw, and it's not unusual for me to have one of the Mandala type grown up coloring books out with colored pencils. It's also not unusual for me to want stuffed animals or squeal in delight over something cute at the store when I'm with them. I love, love, love all kinds of pens, colored pencils, markers and stuff like that...so over the past year I took up bullet journaling with the artistic flair to it. A lot of times that is what gives me a sort of outlet for my little when I'm stressed and everyone else is around. It looks like I am doing really grown up stuff and planning out important things when I'm drawing out my spreads and decorating them...but it's also a way to get some little time in on the sneak 

 

Having kids makes it easy for me to do the cartoon movie thing. We went to the movies with my mom to take the kids to see Lego Batman. My mom made the statement that every time we go to see kids' movies, I'm always the one laughing the hardest in the entire theater. What can I say??? I   cartoon movies!

 

I got rid of all my stuffed animals years ago, and now I'm kinda miffed about it. I think it's time to start a new collection. 

Edited October 10, 2017 by PurpleBabygirlPrincess