Debate, can a DDLG and a TPE dynamic be mixed

[matt6959]

I was wondering if anyone has a DDLG dynamic but Their daddy or Mummy has the power of a Total Power Exchange?

 

So Daddy, Mummy has TPE control but does what's in the best interest of his or her little using that power?

And of course Daddy/ Mummy using the power for their pleasure too.

Does anyone think it could work? If yes why? If no why not?

Edited September 14, 2017 by matt6959

[boomslang]

Absolutely. This is us. I'm little and Daddy is... Daddy lol. We are TPE. Daddy's word is final and I always do as he says, even if I grumble about it sometimes lol. There is no little space or predetermined play time. It's 24/7 in all aspects of life. We've literally spent our whole lives learning about each other, so it's very smooth and comfortable for us both.

[Guest DeOriginalMittens]

I think it can be mixed. DDLG is a caregiving dynamic. Many like to think it is only for sex, but I don't because if it was only for sex, then it could easily fall under bsdm without the sub category title of "DDLG". Since DDLG is about caregiving, I feel that having a TPE could work, especially since it is in the best interest and taking care of the little in question. But I also feel it is only for select few people who are open to having that TPE, if the little doesn't mind the TPE and the Daddy and Mommy establish parameters and nothing is crossing paths then sure. And by crossing paths I mean, if the mommy says one thing but the daddy says another, it can get confusing on who to listen to in a tpe situation. As long as the mommy and daddy are on the same train of thought, or some type of authority is given, then it shouldn't be a problem. For example. Daddy's word above all else, but if something comes up not discussed and daddy isn't there, then mommy's word above all else.  Type of thing. Like the mommy's word cannot go over daddy's or vice versa. As long as some system is set up to preventing crossing arguments, then it should be fine.

[matt6959]

[Guest SUeB]

Yep. Daddy and i are kind of working towards that goal. It can absolutely work. Any mix of dynamic can work.

[Guest headpats]

Yeah, of course! There's no be-all end-all book on this kind of thing. Whatever fits your relationship is the right thing for you.